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Old Dec 12, 2009 | 08:41 PM
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it does not surprise me that this thread got so much replies. my wife is verbally abusive and i am still with her. i am afraid to talk because it might be the wrong thing. I can crush just about anyone, but abuse is not about the physical so much as it is the mental, i will leave someday but I have kids and they are my life.
 
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Old Dec 12, 2009 | 09:09 PM
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Originally Posted by shooter123
it does not surprise me that this thread got so much replies. my wife is verbally abusive and i am still with her. i am afraid to talk because it might be the wrong thing. I can crush just about anyone, but abuse is not about the physical so much as it is the mental, i will leave someday but I have kids and they are my life.

You're the one who needs the support here. My heart goes out to you. I'm sorry your wife treats you like crap and disrespects you.

How long have you know her? Was she this way when you two were dating, or did she begin the abuse after you two were married?
 
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Old Dec 12, 2009 | 09:32 PM
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my wife is verbally abusive and i am still with her. i am afraid to talk because it might be the wrong thing.
Wow, that's a tough lot in life. Sorry to hear it, and I wish you and your children find strength to bear it.

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I'm sorry your wife treats you like crap and disrespects you.
Hey Bill, that could have been you. If that doesn't wake you up, what would?
 
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Old Dec 12, 2009 | 09:40 PM
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it's my life i choose it. no excuses. I do stick up for myself, it's just that it ends up in an argument. 6, it's a guy rule that u can't hit women, (not that I think U would do that ) but pyscho chicks use that against us. i am here because i have kids. u have a chance. I don't
 
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Old Dec 12, 2009 | 09:50 PM
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yes she was nutty when i married her, no excuses
 
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Old Dec 12, 2009 | 09:54 PM
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thanks shooter. I needed that. I'm sorry about your situation.. I'll pray for you bro.

I feel inclined to ask, though, why did you marry her? did you think you loved her?
 
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Old Dec 13, 2009 | 12:14 AM
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Bill, be careful here. It almost sounds like you are trying to talk yourself back into this relationship.
 
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Old Dec 13, 2009 | 06:36 PM
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You're right, I was bigdaddy. I don't know what happened but it feels like a burden has been lifted off of my sholders. I'm not depressed like I was. More than anything I feel angry. I don't know if someone's prayers helped me or what but I don't feel so sad about losing her. i've been tking you guy's advice and actually THINKING about how she treated me. I was reminding myself about all the crap she's done to me.

she's a gold digging liar and a ****. and a theif (she stole a brush from my mom. just a brush, but still).

God bless yall. you guys just have no idea how much I appreciate yall. no idea at all.
 
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Old Dec 13, 2009 | 07:45 PM
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Hang in there Bill. You deserve to be mad. And let being mad keep you from going backward.
 
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Old Dec 13, 2009 | 07:48 PM
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Well, let's see....gold digger, liar, ****, thief. Uh huh, makes me want to take her home to meet the parents, unless someone likes women a "little on the trashy side". Hang on Bill, you are better than that. Some one better is out there for you.
 
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Old Dec 13, 2009 | 07:51 PM
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haha, Dan, that made me laugh out loud. in my defense, she was a perfect, sweet angel at first. she had us all fooled.
 
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Old Dec 13, 2009 | 07:54 PM
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Hang in there Bill. You deserve to be mad. And let being mad keep you from going backward.
I'm a hangin', thank you bro.
 
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Old Dec 13, 2009 | 07:54 PM
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they're ALL like that bill
 
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Old Dec 13, 2009 | 07:59 PM
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they're ALL like that bill

hahahaha Charlie

it's all roses and rainbows in the beginning, right? heh. they say it takes about three months before the real person begins emerging.
 
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Old Dec 13, 2009 | 08:02 PM
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And that's why you don't want to move in together with any of them for a really long time.
 
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