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Old Dec 19, 2009 | 09:25 PM
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sounds like you are walking on the razor's edge. I'd bail.
 
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Old Dec 20, 2009 | 01:52 AM
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Well guys, I had a real heart to heart with Amy today....Went well, she seems to have taken heed to what I said....Pretty much told her I was tired of being taken for granted....That I couldnt take the stress, aggravation, and the general whinny bull**** that she pretty well spewed damn near all the time, and that if she could not give me more respect then I would be forced to find someone else that would....Also told her the only reason she opposed my getting Underground Mining Training, and cards were because she knew if something happened to me, that noboby else would put up with her ****.....I think she has finally began to sit down, and really take a reflection of our marriage....

Thanks all for the help an support-

-Wes

BTW, Does this place have a chat room, I was on another forum that had it set to open after so many posts.....Jus wondering....
 
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Old Dec 20, 2009 | 07:22 AM
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Wow, she actually listened to you and didn't put all of the blame on your lap, making it sound like you deserve everything she gives you?

Might be a keeper. (joke)
 
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Old Dec 20, 2009 | 08:40 AM
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Originally Posted by 6CylBill
Wow, she actually listened to you and didn't put all of the blame on your lap, making it sound like you deserve everything she gives you?

Might be a keeper. (joke)

BILL!!!!! You and I need to chat!!!

Come on......we arent all bad~~~


 
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Old Dec 20, 2009 | 09:10 AM
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You haven't dumped her yet?
 
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Old Dec 20, 2009 | 07:58 PM
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Originally Posted by PreciousOne
BILL!!!!! You and I need to chat!!!

Come on......we arent all bad~~~


You seem highly defensive of the female population. I'm not generalizing, never have. His wife sounds like my ex, that's all I was saying. I don't think any man here has generalized women in any way. If they have, I missed the post. I don't mean to sound hostile but I wanted to make myself perfectly clear, because I don't want you or anybody else saying I'm generalizing anybody, when I'm not. I've just been through a lot and I'm still hurting. I hate to see my brother here suffer also. It's just frusterating.. You do and do and do and none of it is good enough.

I wish you would hit me in the head with a frying pan. Maybe I'd feel better! haha!

I still love you Miss T! You're the bomb diggity. Just wanted to make myself clear.
 
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Old Dec 20, 2009 | 08:56 PM
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Good news. You are not married to her. Most guys don't experience this until they are married with children and saddled with debt. Don't walk, run.
WOMEN also get duped!!

Originally Posted by bigrigfixer
Sorry to say it pal, but it may be time to move on. Or you'll just have to grab the bull by the horns at take the control back. But without more info, there isn't much help to give. What kind of stuff is she doing? Give us some specifics.

Most women are controlling, it's hardwired. They try to change you, and most guys will give a little to get some.
OhMyFreakingGosh


Originally Posted by websthes
Women are like children, they need to be put them in their place from time to time, and after you let her sulk for a little while, go back and make up with her.

Just remember.. iron fist in a velvet glove.
BULL SCHEIDT

Originally Posted by mercman86
x2 Couldn't have said it better than that
and then HE agreed

Originally Posted by PreciousOne

not all women are the same.....you CANNOT generalize and stereotype....like many have said THERE ARE MORE WOMEN OUT THERE.....ANOTHER ONE WILL COME ALONG....and that is true....but he was asking how to work it out....


{{{{{hugs}}}}}



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Bill, dude, man!!! This if from the first four pages....do you need me to search any more?? I am speaking from the other side...not all men are the same any more than all women are the same....

IF all men were the same, Paul and I would NOT be together because I would stay away from men!!!!!!

I dont think anything I said has lumped all men in the same category, but YES, there have been a few remarks made by the male gender here that has lumped us women together......

and, Bill, I would NEVER hit anyone with a skillet!!

lovin ya, neighbor~

{{{{{hugs}}}}}



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Old Dec 20, 2009 | 08:58 PM
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Originally Posted by 6CylBill
You seem highly defensive of the female population. I'm not generalizing, never have. His wife sounds like my ex, that's all I was saying. I don't think any man here has generalized women in any way. If they have, I missed the post. I don't mean to sound hostile but I wanted to make myself perfectly clear, because I don't want you or anybody else saying I'm generalizing anybody, when I'm not. I've just been through a lot and I'm still hurting. I hate to see my brother here suffer also. It's just frusterating.. You do and do and do and none of it is good enough.

I wish you would hit me in the head with a frying pan. Maybe I'd feel better! haha!

I still love you Miss T! You're the bomb diggity. Just wanted to make myself clear.

Bill, you made yourself perfectly clear....

we need to get together for lunch

I will bring the skillet.......

{{{{{hugs}}}}}


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Old Dec 21, 2009 | 07:54 AM
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LOL, Miss T... I see your point.

((((huuuuugggs baack!!))))
 
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Old Jan 10, 2010 | 06:09 PM
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Hate to did up old bones, but how are ya holding up Bill? I got an email from my ex today and it made me think of this thread right away.
 
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Old Jan 10, 2010 | 06:31 PM
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Hey Amigo. Some days and some nights are really hard, mainly the nights, but I'm doing MUCH MUCH MUCH better. How about you man, what was up with the e-mail? Thank you for thinking of me and checking on me.
 
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Old Jan 10, 2010 | 06:51 PM
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Anytime buddy, glad to hear you are doing the best you can. As far as my ex goes she sent an email just telling me that's she's going to Europe for a year for school and she thought that I'd like to know that. Truth is Europe isn't far enough away for me lol. It's been almost tow years now for me and I'm totally moved on. It's a nice feeling to be able to get an email/call/text from her and not even give a care in the world to it. I'm probably going to do something that I never thought I'd do... join one of those dating sites. I have always thought that they are ridiculous, but a few of my friends are on them and have had good luck finding normal girls on there. Might be worth a shot, who knows. I've pretty much exhausted all my routes for finding new people.
 
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Old Jan 10, 2010 | 07:09 PM
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Anytime buddy, glad to hear you are doing the best you can. As far as my ex goes she sent an email just telling me that's she's going to Europe for a year for school and she thought that I'd like to know that. Truth is Europe isn't far enough away for me lol. It's been almost tow years now for me and I'm totally moved on. It's a nice feeling to be able to get an email/call/text from her and not even give a care in the world to it. I'm probably going to do something that I never thought I'd do... join one of those dating sites. I have always thought that they are rediculous, but a few of my friends are on them and have had good luck finding normal girls on there. Might be worth a shot, who knows. I've pretty much exhausted all my routes for finding new people.
I laughed out loud at the, "She thought I'd like to know that" part. These women are crazy, man.. She wants you to worry about her, I guess? I don't know. They try to get in our heads. Crazy.

I'm with you brother. I joined Facebook to make friends with my church group. So far I've been enjoying it man.. I recomend you get online too. Just be careful! Men get stalked too. Just use common sense when it comes to meeting someone you don't know.
 
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Old Jan 10, 2010 | 07:55 PM
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Originally Posted by 6CylBill
Hey Amigo. Some days and some nights are really hard, mainly the nights, but I'm doing MUCH MUCH MUCH better. How about you man, what was up with the e-mail? Thank you for thinking of me and checking on me.
I wondered how you were holding up as well, It's great to see the progress.
 
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Old Jan 10, 2010 | 08:03 PM
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Was wondering too, just didn't want to dig at old wounds.. Glad to hear your hanging in there. It keeps getting better..
 
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