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Oh David... my heart goes out to you. I know it is hard, but your every action and decision to continue to honor your father with your faithful love and presence is not wasted, my friend. It gives your mother encouragement, and it gives the highest example possible to those others who see it, be it your children, siblings, friends, relatives... it is worth every moment of pain because in the end you will have absolutely NO regrets.
I remember late one night a month or so before my father died when my Mom was pushing him around the house in the wheelchair because he just needed to see everything in the house. He was having trouble remembering where he was and couldn't understand why he was like that, and told me, "I just feel lost!" with such sadness in his face. It was heart-breaking to see.
Stay strong. I believe with all my heart that the rewards of showing honor to your parents in ALL situations carries tremendous emotional and relational healing powers for every heart thet sees and experiences it.
Thank's Pete for the word's of encouragement, I know that one day I will go in and he might not know me, but until then there is hope!! You are right, it is hard. Thank's Again!!
Pete, I cannot rep you, but you deserve it for that last post.
I did it for you too.
morning everyone.
Steve, I have not been able to go back and read all the posts. so not sure whatz up. But I hope you are well. and just wanted to say thanks for your advice yesterday.
Pete, Steve, and David I feel for all of you. I have not lost either parent yet but I have been through the dementia thing with my wifes aunt that lived with us for a year. Not easy to see them go through that. Keep doing what you already are. You will not regret it.