Got dumped today
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Hey bro, you will see that it will feel better in no time. You're not a partier which is good because atleast you won't be bumping into her all the time. When I was your age, I joined the Navy and went to see the world and a whole lot of booty. Go get a GI BILL and go back to school. Just a thought.
If nothing else, you're only 18 and you have a sweet truck. Better than most... Keep your head up... and try to bang one of her friends! J/K
If nothing else, you're only 18 and you have a sweet truck. Better than most... Keep your head up... and try to bang one of her friends! J/K
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man, oh, man, All this seems oddly familiar. especially the part of MOST of all your stories about a girl who parties a lot, and the fact that we dont. If your a nice guy, like me, this will probably happen a lot. I cant count how many times Ive been attracted to a party girl, and then been totally *tricked* by her mind games (why are the hottest ones party people). girls like bad boys. I dont understand why. All us nice guys are in the same boat. I hate that "lets just be friends" crap. its a total copout. Oh well, single is the way to be. buy a metalhead t-shirt, and act like a bad boy on the weekends, you get all kinds of *clears throat* "short term female accompaniment" it works just the same. if you want, catch one(girl) with the badboy act, then real her in with your good guy behavior later. Tried and true. good luck guys
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Well, for those of you following this thread, I have good news.
I think my old GF (the one I was talking about in this post) and I got back togeather tonight. I picked her up from her house, and we hung out for about three hours. She basically said that she like spending time with me, and that she's realized that all her other friends are jerks. She realized what she did wrong (like dumping me lol) and now we're working things out. We're finding out that we do have a lot of things in common. I think she finally realized that out of all the kids she's dated, that she had a good guy right under her nose the whole time, and now she's realizing that.
Oh well, just an update for those that are interested.
I think my old GF (the one I was talking about in this post) and I got back togeather tonight. I picked her up from her house, and we hung out for about three hours. She basically said that she like spending time with me, and that she's realized that all her other friends are jerks. She realized what she did wrong (like dumping me lol) and now we're working things out. We're finding out that we do have a lot of things in common. I think she finally realized that out of all the kids she's dated, that she had a good guy right under her nose the whole time, and now she's realizing that.
Oh well, just an update for those that are interested.
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I'll have to charm in here. I see that things seem cool now, but just take caution. My message is that this type of thing happens to 99.5% of the male population. I've been there, I've done that too. It sucked at first, then you should take cover from the pain with friends, family, and a lot of right foot, and it goes away. Hell, there's songs about this stuff man!! If you take anything away from all this, just know that if it doesn't work out the right girl is out there. You may not find her at 18 or even 21 (I know I didn't) but you will stumble on to her. Let's hope it's not literally, but don't rule that out!! Anyway, keep living life, don't take no bull, and do what makes you happy. Yourself is job #1, do your job with quality and integrity.
p.s. maybe you should have a beer or two once and a while.... when you are leagle. There's a lot to be said about socializing with the guys over some suds, also a great way to get in the social scene where your girl options will open up. Make sure you take enough test drives before signing the loan papers.
p.s. maybe you should have a beer or two once and a while.... when you are leagle. There's a lot to be said about socializing with the guys over some suds, also a great way to get in the social scene where your girl options will open up. Make sure you take enough test drives before signing the loan papers.
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The bottom has fallen out of the girl market here. I got rid of my last g/f about 2 or 3 weeks ago and I'm looking for a replacement, and the ones I'm seeing around here are either taken or are the kind that are so shy they make up cop-outs when you talk to them, its so hard knowing they like you but they can't break through their shell of shyness to talk with you longer than 3 to 5 minutes. I like the quieter girls, but that doesn't mean that she can't be social.
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MW95F250,
Sounds like we're dealing with the same kind of chick. I'm working on ne now that is really cool, low maintenance, anti-drama, and loves trucks especially Fords
The problem is she's so afraid of another relationship she's scared of our interaction (the thing is I'm not really looking for anything serious either, go figure). Why do women do this crap, this is the second one like this in two months... everything is cool then SCREEEEECH!!! Oh well c'est la vie.
Sounds like we're dealing with the same kind of chick. I'm working on ne now that is really cool, low maintenance, anti-drama, and loves trucks especially Fords
The problem is she's so afraid of another relationship she's scared of our interaction (the thing is I'm not really looking for anything serious either, go figure). Why do women do this crap, this is the second one like this in two months... everything is cool then SCREEEEECH!!! Oh well c'est la vie.
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first bit of advice i can give ( for what it's worth)every day that you are grieving for this relationship you are giving this girl power over you. is she worth turning all control of your life over to? that's what happens when you hold on to something that is negative like this girl.
think about customers, when they are grumpy you don't allow that to affect your whole life do you?
no!
so why allow this person who does not deserve you to have control.
besides my husband is a "nice guy" and man i feel as though God has reached down and blessed me, i know i don't deserve someone as good as he is.
so just remember it might take awhile but you will find someone who feels the same way as i do about him.
just DON'T get some girl pregnant!
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