Well, heres another crappy girl thread, sorry ladies but no offense to you all. I'm sure you are all nice people, unlike her. Here goes, over the several months my dating life has been pretty interesting, one before xmas and one a towards the end of january, both never 'went' anywhere but I was good. But this latest one takes the cake. We met right before spring break and I took her to see starsky and hutch the very next day. we had some interest in each other, nothing serious. She said after that that we should be friends and that i was a nice guy blah blah blah. I said I had to much fun with her and would to take her out again sometime after spring break. she agreed. fastforward to literally 35 minutes ago. I called a couple of times to see when I should go get her. Her phone 'died' a each time b/c of a low battery so I proceed to call her a bunch of times trying. She finally i.m.'ed me on aol and said that i annoyed her a lot and that I was a cool guy but she didn't want to go out tonite or any other time. That she was 'high' energy and I was 'low' energy, she don't know! We've never been around each other for more than 72 hours (thats combined contact if that makes any sense). Also said I called her too much! I specifically limited my calls for that very reason. I didn't call her at all during spring break, called her twice this week to see if she was going to church (subn and wednesday) called her yesterday to see if she was going to a activity w/ our student center- she didn't pick up. I've i.m.ed her a bunch just trying to chat and to get to know her b/c we had just met. she would didn't respond too much- I figured she wasn't there or something this is auburn university afterall. All in all, the thing that angers me the most is that she never said anything, thats all she had to do. Thats all I'm upset about. The one thing she had to do was tell me how she felt- that was it. Nothing more nothing less. Sorry bout chapters one through eight up there, but it had to be done. Stupid girl.
-William

 

Don't worry about it - everyone goes through plenty of 'wack-Os' before meeting someone worth while. In my dating days I went out with a couple doozies... One memory comes to mind is the "Ice Queen" - we go out a few times, things are good.. .at a Comedy Club she rests her hang on my theigh, and gives all the go-ahead signals. Pleasant converation & great night - walked her to her door, and B-A-M old man winter shows up in June. Frosty goodbye and she goes up to her place. I don't have a clue what went wrong... . I have a 2-call rule. 2 calls no answer/no return message then that # goes in the trash. Lota gals (even more guys for that matter) don't have the ***** to say what's on their mind and act like a child. If it isn't going to work, then for the love of pete SAY SOMETHING. I say onto the next woman BillyBob!!! Go get 'em tiger!

 

My Favourite singing tune is :
" I got.....ta ...Be Me ....I got.....ta be Me ,...I'm happy & Free ...as you can see..........I gotta be me "

 

I don't know, women can be strange some times. Girl I met a while ago, while out with some friends kinda did the same thing to me. We met through a mutual friends birthday party and she was aggressive from the start. I didn't really "try" but she was. So when she was getting ready to go, she tracks me down to give me her number, etc. I called her a couple of days later, got the voicemail. If she wants to go out she can call me back. So when she did call back, we figured out a time when we could get together and everything was Kool and the Gang. We go get a few drinks and she starts talking about me meeting her dad and some crazy stuff I wasn't wanting to hear. At the end of the night, she was definitely the one who initiated "everything" (if you know what I mean). So this happens for a week or two and then I start to get her voice mail each time I call. OK, I just stopped calling. A week later, I kid you not, I get a letter in the mail telling me that I am crowding her! Crowding? I guess not calling for a week is "crowding" in her book. Since the letter she has called a few times but I don't really want to talk so I just don't answer (which is hard because she is so HOT!). I guess everybody gets their share of crazy people, so don't let it get to you. You'll find something better if you can wait.

 

Some people are like that, both guys and girls,they are happy to string others along just waiting for someone better to come along.The good thing about it is,most of the time they get what they deserve in the long run.Its just sad that they step on other peoples feelings and dont even care.Dont give up trying,just remember to be yourself and try not to gain an impression of someone until you have had multiple contacts with them.If you call and get a machine,well just leave a msg,let her call you back,if she doesn`t,move on.Relationships are like fishing,ya gota keep throwing them back until you find a keeper.

 

Oh, I can wait all right. If there's one thing I've learned in this is that there is always another one. Now I'm glad I stayed single in high school, saved myself from this crap. I'm not letting my plans go to waste, I'm still going putt putt (thats what I THOUGHT we were going todo tonite) tonight or tomorrow at least. I just wish she would have said something, when I called her Wednesday bout church, she was in montgumery and couldn't make it- fine. Before I hung up I said I'd call her later this week bout today. There! Right there, she should have said something- anything about how she felt. But all she said was ok, meaning she was cool with it. -BBB

 

Having a girlfriend is a total waste of time.

 

clearly you are a young guy from what youve said in your posts... let me pass on some wisdom from an old fart like me
Women much like our beloved trucks can be a PITA... On a good cold morning when you really need either one of em a truck or a woman youll never get em to turn over...and if its one of the newer models youll never figure em out neither...
Most women are also like busses miss one catch the next.. dont sweat them thres another one to give ya another whole set of grief right around the corner
chalk this last one up to just bein an idiot and get ready for the next one

 

Women are like buses,just hop on the next one that comes by.

 

Ranger bob, that pretty much sumed it up. (btw, i'm 19.) I'll wait awhile before I pursue anything, all in time my friend. and the bad thing is that my parents really get the short end of the stick. I know it wasn't anything serious, but I let my parents know what I'm up too, you know. My dad has been out of work since mid-march, so with three kids in college money is very, very tight (i'm the youngest of three boys). Somehow $50 dollars found its way into my account at the beginning of the week and I checked it this afternoon and they'd put an extra $40 in. I love my parents. -William

 

I could write a damn book , but, I am not going to bore anyone and go into all that I have experinced. Instead I will leave with just a few comments. First, you feel lucky when you meet them, happy and well sometimes in love- well you are a hell of alot luckier when they depart from you in most cases. Remember even the cutest kittys have sharp claws. ANd love is grand-- usually 100 grand. With that said ,yes I believe in love and yes there are some very wonderful women out there. Just your chances of finding a great one is slim / and the same could be said of them finding a great guy. Sometimes the greatest gift a person can give another is to leave them. She has liberated you from the hell of playing games- because it sounds like that is what she does best. Don't let her get to you- she did you a favor and liberated you from her. According to your story she blamed you for alot you never did- that there tells you she has a psychological problem- better let someone else deal with that, her, and the bs games she wants to play. A better one is out there. Just think how many games you would play 2 years down the line

 

I've finally found the one for me but boy did I have to put in my dues. I had one who, every time I called her was busy. Getting shoes, getting hair done etc.. I figured brush off. A couple years later I run into her mom. Turns out she really was doing the things she said and wondered why I stopped calling. I was amazed by that one. Then I had another one that I called one night and her mom answers. I asked if she was in and she said no. Then she says can I ask who's calling. I gave my name and she asks me to hold on for a second. Then comes back on and says her daughters not home. I ain't dumb. She was standing right there next to mommy I bet. She was a lyin so and so anyway. Good riddance to her. Glad I'm settling down though, its rough out there.

 

...and if its one of the newer models youll never figure em out neither...


I've got one of the older ones and haven't figured her out either.

 

I have decided that you really have to trade them in after a certain period of time. Unless you get real lucky.

 

[QUOTE= On a good cold morning when you really need either one of em a truck or a woman youll never get em to turn over...[/QUOTE]


I like that.