why me???
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why me???
alright so... ive gotten pretty serious with this one chick i know, ( Jen ) i think you guys know what i mean by serious... but at the same time... me and ( Jill ) have been spending alot of time together...
not a really big deal... its the year 2004 and casual relationships are a dime-a-dozen... BUT... they are best friends... and i cant keep them both
to most guys this seems like a good thing but ive played games with too many girls... and now i really dont want to be the guy i thought i use to be... i thought i changed but i guess i havent- i guess im just like my father... this sucks.... just had to rant- sorry
not a really big deal... its the year 2004 and casual relationships are a dime-a-dozen... BUT... they are best friends... and i cant keep them both
to most guys this seems like a good thing but ive played games with too many girls... and now i really dont want to be the guy i thought i use to be... i thought i changed but i guess i havent- i guess im just like my father... this sucks.... just had to rant- sorry
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couleeman- trust me... i tried and they arent "that" good of friends 
but they are best friends. so ill have to settle for one at a time; biggest concern is not to hurt anyone although it might be too late.
but they are best friends. so ill have to settle for one at a time; biggest concern is not to hurt anyone although it might be too late.
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Originally Posted by mrwizard
Don't pick either one. They will stay friends, and you will not be blamed for causing them to hate each other. Stay single. Life is much easier that way.
Just kidding. You might try a little honesty with them, though. It actually works on occasion...
I agree with couleeman, though, stay away from the bearded lady. LOL
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It took me till I was 29 to realize this.....if you have to choose, I found it best to concentrate on the one that is more likely to go the distance.
Sounds like you dont want to be a player anymore......so thats my best advice.
Good Luck.
Sounds like you dont want to be a player anymore......so thats my best advice.
Good Luck.
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Wait... perhaps I have missed something. Is there 2 girls here? Or are you saying that you are afraid that you are spending too much time w/ her and neglecting your friends?
And uh... how "serious" is "serious".
And uh... how "serious" is "serious".
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Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy...although theres times when you do use it to do something hard and you may think, Honesty is the best policy? Yeah Right. Sometimes...ok a lot of times it's very hard to be honest BUT it is the best thing you can do AND it lets you sleep better.! 
What will happen is you'll be able to find the "one" for you...and it might not even be one of them!! 
Good luck.
What will happen is you'll be able to find the "one" for you...and it might not even be one of them!! Good luck.
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well, i told Jen that i dont want a "relationship" and she said what we have now is perfect, and i think Jill is on her way over so we can talk about the situation and figure out the best solution without anyone getting their feelings hurt. thankfully this has only been going on for a while.
i feel that me and Jill would be the better equation because me and her are on the same "level" both girls are only a year younger than me, but you can tell Jill has experienced so much more of life that Jen hasnt, Jen seems kinda like she was sheltered by her parents and at college, where Jill and I have led slightly wilder lives and can relate to eachother better.
i was trying to break things off gently with Jen, and just keeping me and Jill a secret from our group of friends. she seemed very happy with that idea but now shes worried Jen just might find out, and get hurt by that. so i dont know what to do... maybe i should just call it off with both girls and move on. but... me and Jill would be so good together as long as no one finds out
i feel that me and Jill would be the better equation because me and her are on the same "level" both girls are only a year younger than me, but you can tell Jill has experienced so much more of life that Jen hasnt, Jen seems kinda like she was sheltered by her parents and at college, where Jill and I have led slightly wilder lives and can relate to eachother better.
i was trying to break things off gently with Jen, and just keeping me and Jill a secret from our group of friends. she seemed very happy with that idea but now shes worried Jen just might find out, and get hurt by that. so i dont know what to do... maybe i should just call it off with both girls and move on. but... me and Jill would be so good together as long as no one finds out
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