Running away
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Cargo Master
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Thanks everyone for all the advice. Im sure Ill be fine its just gonna take some adjustment. I think its awesome how you can come to this place lookin for truck probs and get an answer right away, then also come with personal probs and get some of the best advice ever.
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Dylan
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Dylan
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You know we're all here for each other Bro.
P.S. Nobody EVER said this would be easy man. Infact, it's one of the hardest things to ever do. But YOU will prevail. Just gotta pick yourself up everytime you fall down.... is it just me or do everyone else here start humming the song from "Rocky". lol
P.S. Nobody EVER said this would be easy man. Infact, it's one of the hardest things to ever do. But YOU will prevail. Just gotta pick yourself up everytime you fall down.... is it just me or do everyone else here start humming the song from "Rocky". lol
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Cargo Master
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Well I just got another letter from her yesterday. Sayin how much loves me and how much she misses me. She said she was sorry (go figure) and that shes buring inside and wont stop burin till I come back. I dunno....Im not mad any more and I still have feelings for her but I have a good feeling she'll do it agian. I wrote her back and told her that she told lies on top of lies and and cheated on me and that those are the two things that I hate most, and I told her that I still have feelings for her but that I cant trust her. I told her that since shes grounded that she has plenty of time to convince me to come back and that if she doesnt want to convince me then to be it, that I have ALOT of people telling me not to take her back and told her that if she wants she can prove them wrong. I left it at that. Does any one think this was a good idea?
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Burn me once shame on you
Burn me twice shame on me
There have got to be some places around you,where you can meet someone that is more worthy of you.You seam like a guy with a good head on his shoulders,and I would really hate to hear that you got hurt again,and trust me on this,A person who cheats once,will do it again.Besides,do you always want to have in the back of your mind,hmmm,she is not home,I wonder where she is,is she doing it again?The right girl is out there,you just have to go to places where there are people,malls,bowling alleys,all sorts of places.You deserve better.
Burn me twice shame on me
There have got to be some places around you,where you can meet someone that is more worthy of you.You seam like a guy with a good head on his shoulders,and I would really hate to hear that you got hurt again,and trust me on this,A person who cheats once,will do it again.Besides,do you always want to have in the back of your mind,hmmm,she is not home,I wonder where she is,is she doing it again?The right girl is out there,you just have to go to places where there are people,malls,bowling alleys,all sorts of places.You deserve better.
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Cargo Master
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I know she'll do it agian and your right I dont wanna always be paranoid. I think shes might be just desperate. Who knows but I guess I do need to stop worryin about it and get someone better. There dont seem to be many at my school lol. And all the good ones are takin. Thanks
Dylan
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Hahaha ok this is the last update.
She got on AIM last night (somehow was able to get on a computer) and asked me if Id talk to her. I said ok. She said some stuff and she said that I need to get over it. I said I was over it and that I was over her too. She didnt believe me and kept tellin me that I wasnt over her. She said prove it, so I blocked her. 10 mins later when she realized that I wasnt gonna unblock her she got on another screen name and started talkin to me agian..does she not get it? I dunno. So she started runnin her mouth, I let her have a piece of my mind, then SHE told ME to move on...HAHAHAHA wow. So...I blocked her. One thing though is she said somthin about the guy she cheated on me with and gettin him to kick my **** when everyone goes to Joes Pasta on wendnesday night, cause I always go too. lol this guy is huge...twice as big as I am and Ive never backed down and this is no different. Shes gonna lie to him and tell him that I threatened him and blah blah blah, this chick is crazy, Im still kickin myself for not listenin to my best friend from the beginning.
Dylan
She got on AIM last night (somehow was able to get on a computer) and asked me if Id talk to her. I said ok. She said some stuff and she said that I need to get over it. I said I was over it and that I was over her too. She didnt believe me and kept tellin me that I wasnt over her. She said prove it, so I blocked her. 10 mins later when she realized that I wasnt gonna unblock her she got on another screen name and started talkin to me agian..does she not get it? I dunno. So she started runnin her mouth, I let her have a piece of my mind, then SHE told ME to move on...HAHAHAHA wow. So...I blocked her. One thing though is she said somthin about the guy she cheated on me with and gettin him to kick my **** when everyone goes to Joes Pasta on wendnesday night, cause I always go too. lol this guy is huge...twice as big as I am and Ive never backed down and this is no different. Shes gonna lie to him and tell him that I threatened him and blah blah blah, this chick is crazy, Im still kickin myself for not listenin to my best friend from the beginning.
Dylan
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Bro,the best advice I can give you here is,first,DONT go to the pasta shop,I dont want to here about some guy twice your size hurting you,Second,now is the time for your friends to help you out,why,cause if you go and try to reason with this guy,all he is going to see is anger,thinking,that you said something you didn`t.As far as the girl,well I can tell,you are smart enough to see what she truely is without me calling her names.If you try and talk to her,all she is going to do,is turn and twist your words into something you never said.Just keep blocking her.Question?Does this guy go to your school,if so,you might be able to get a counselor to talk to him,and tell him that this stuff that he is hearing is all fabricated,if not,make sure your real friends know what is happening,and maybe one of them can talk to this guy.Trust me here,it has to be done by a third party that this guy is not p.o.ed at.Seems to me,her life is so miserable,that the only way she is happy,is to make somebody else suffer.Another thought is,the next time she sends you an e-mail that says she is going to make up stories about you,copy it.Give it to your friends,let them see how she truely is!Nobody likes a liar or someone who is twofaced.
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Cargo Master
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No this guy dont go to my school. He used to. Thing is I dont think he will even do anything because were friends. We havent talked in a long time but we did jury duty and community service together. If I try to talk to him he'll listen the only reason I think he'll believe her is that he is protective of her. He's known her for a long time so I dunno. But one thing Im not doing is running, may sound stubborn but I have never run and its not gonna change now. I have alot of friends that would back me up. So it goes like, mess with me mess with my friends, mess with them mess with their friends, and so on. What I think Ill do is print out the AIM converstation cause I did save it cause I figured somethin like this would happen and bring it to Joes and leave it in my truck just in case. I learned lol.
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By not showing up,does not mean you are running,didn`t you say your best bud had apretty smart girlfriend?talk to him,maybe she could get one of her girlfiends and the four of you could go out and do something fun,and make sure others know what you are doing,This would serve two purposes.One,it would show the guy that you have better things to do with your time than fight over nothing,and two,just imagine how mad she would get,to find out her little scheme didn`t work,and that you were out having fun instead.