Her parents prolly dont think that you are being "true" about your Christianity, i mean, can you call yourself a student if you never go to school? Or read your textbook? Or help spread the knowledge you've learned?
Anyways, upon reading one of your last few posts, it almost seems to me that you might be trying to say that the mother was justified in the slapping, and that it was'nt more than what the crime called for. Is this true? None-the-less, I think you are certainly making the right decision by laying low. Stick to it, cause I promise, you WILL be made out to be the bad guy in the end (to AT LEAST one of them).

Besides, what parent EVER thinks that any guy is "good enough" for their daughter?

 

Ditto Traxxis.
I do not go to Church that often, but I did go to private schools.
I think that in my used-to- be GF's dad's image, I a "bad" kid just like the rest of them, when I know that I do NOTHING as CLOSE to bad behavior as the kids she hangs around with does. I was just caught in the famous wrong place and the wrong time, and now, her dad think's I'm the bad guy, when I most certianly am NOT.

AHHH - - Parents

 

Im not condoning her being slapped. What I meant was that since it wasnt bruising to her face and I didnt see any damage and she said that it didnt even hurt, then I dont need to be getting outside "forces" involved because it would just make everything worse. Now if there woulda been a bruise or if she told me that it really hurt or if it was a closed fist you bet I woulda stepped in and delt with it accordingly. Im going to start goin to church to see her and hopefully prove to her parents that I am true to my christianity. In any case if or when I do get made out to be the bad guy, Ill make sure that I become the bad guy in her parents eyes and not Brittany. Theres always ways to get around parents some way or another and I dont want to loose Brittany because she starts to hate me, although I know that it would take alot for me to lose her and I know this because shes told me so...and Itll take alot for her to lose me. Her parents arent going to get there way that easily lol

 

well, on another issue... go to church for the right reasons man, then everything WILL work out for the best.

Anyways, I do now see what you are saying about the punishment being fit for the crime. And no, I dont really think there is a reason to bring in authorities. Especially you bro, cause you would REALLY be stuck in the middle then (and more than likely the both of the will turn around and be furious at you).

 

Well....this is will be the last update. End result, Im done with her for good. Heres how it happened. Yesterday she called and told me that we had to break up because her mom found a letter of ours and she said if we didnt break up that she would ban her from ever seeing me agian. At least thats what she told me. Well the past week shes been in Mexico for a church mission trip. I had had suspisions of her cheating on me and I dont know why, but I just had a gut feeling. Well tonight I was at my friends house and was talking to her, got bit by a spider, and had to walk out of the room. So I let my friend talk to her with whom she is friends with too. Well I came back in and he talked to her for a few more mins and gave the phone back to me. I started talkin to her agian and I just flat out asked her if she had cheated on me...of course she said no and that she wouldnt do that. Well she started gettin all quiet and stuff and was like "Hey Im gonna go", I asked what was wrong cause I could hear it in her voice. She said nothing and just hung up. Then I asked my friend what they talked about and he had this look on his face and was like "Ok, she told me not to tell...but she did cheat on you. She told me that that was the real reason that she broke up with you. She also stold me if I told you that she would make stuff about me and tell kenna (the girl hes been dating for a while) and mess things up b/t us." I dont know why she would think that he wouldnt tell me cause hes my best friend. She doesnt know that I know yet. Now when she calls Im just not gonna answer, Im not gonna go to church on wednesday to see her or any of that. It may not be the right thing to do but I dunno. As of now she still thinks Im gonna be at church and shes been lookin forward to seein me there for the past 2 weeks, I guess its gonna kinda suck for her when I dont show. That may sound cold hearted and Im really not a cold hearted person at all, but one thing I dont take is being lied to and cheated on and I told her that from the get go. Sorry for the long post but I had to throw a rant in there too.
Dylan

 

Hey, you got every right to be cold hearted here. She really pulled some stuff thats BS. You got my sympathy here. I think the best thing to do would be just let her feel crappy. Just quit showing up, and don't even acknowledge her anymore. Thats what I did when I had something like that happen to me. You don't have to deal with that, expecially when they lie to you. You'll find someone better, you deserve better.

 

Thanks mistercmk. Ya I hope she does feel like crap, I sure do. Its insulting. But I told her from the start if she cheated on me that it would be over, and I hate being a hypocrite. I told her Id never cheat on her or lie to her, I kept that promise, and I have never cheated on ANY of my g/f's, and never will. Its VERY wrong, degrading and insulting. Now me and my best friend have to try to get ahold of the girl he's dating before she does.

 

I agree and you have my sympathy too,but cheer up,It will get better trust me.It is time for you to put girls and relationships right out of your mind for awhile.if this relationship has anything to it,you will not hurt it if you put your attention towards something else for awhile.Honest It Works,What are your hobbies,I know you love Ford trucks,start checking out your local swap meets,you dont have to buy anything,just look at all the cool stuff,treat yourself once in awhile,get all dressed up and take Yourself to a concert or a movie,just put your thoughts toward other things for a while,things that make YOU happy,or things that interest YOU.You will be amazed at how fast your spirit will be lifted,Look up old friends,Guy friends,go do some fun stuff,really,It helps.

 

It may not be the right thing to do but I dunno.

dude, she cheated on u - drop her like she's hot, theres simply no need to put yourself thru this. just kick back and enjoy being single and having money again lol. you r completely in the right, you've done all you can for her in the her previous situations man. just move on down the line and take it easy -William

and keep on keepin' on. - joe dirt

 

don't ya love girls (I sure do!)

 

The money part is deff right. I was saving money to go to church camp with her over summer, have like 200$ saved. Now I get new heads

 

wezol5484
There is a bright side to this! It's your turn to have fun and go out with another. Go to church for your own good, and kill her with kindness. Be plite, be frindly,and leave. You will get over this and move on with life. For every 1 man there are 5 ladys the odd are good for you. Not for her and it will be here loss. LOL So chin up walk proud you made it thru one of lifes bumps in the road.

 

Weez, Welcome to Reality.
Start preparing yourself for about 4 more of these type situations before the commiting relationship's begin.

That's why they call it Sowing your wild oats.

These are considered, teaching aspects of life.

 

WELL SAID MIL1ION!!!!!

 

lol ya I could try to kill her with kindness...but that would be incredibly hard to do. What Ill prob do is ignore her, but when Im around her have as much fun as I possibly can with everyone else BUT her. Make her think that she what she did had no impact on me and that Im just as happy without her. Mil1ion, what you said, I think, was also very well put. I like the way you put it, thanks. On another note, its ironic that you called me weez lol. Most people know me as wezol but a few call me weez and a few girls call me weezy. Its weird cause people know me as wezol, but I have no clue as to who they are and they dont know my real name lol. Mostly just my friends know my real name.