That makes you:
A. a pervert
B. to be envied
C. considering the age differences, a dirty old man
D. in need of being fully aware of safe sex
E. one of the few not choosing abstinence
Ah! to be young, full of .... , and single

 

haha whoa chill out. i turn 18 in april. im still a senior in high school haha. and i was just kidding anyways ive only had sex with one freshman, just because she was HOT. jeez a dirty old man? lol oh well.

 

well,i will say that i was one who has chosen to stay celibate thus far to the age of 20, and as i continue on, i question more and more my choice to remain so...kennyrrt, i am in the position you were not so many years ago, and i do it for mom america and apple pie...i guess the worst part is that the decision is so danged hard to refrain, and ill be dammed if i let my virility get the best of me and make the decision for me...but this also brings another interesting discussion to the table, and that is the form of sex that takes only yourself, pardon my cryptic wording but i am trying to advance the conversation and keep this a family friendly post...so the aforementioned topic should be referred to as shampooing...is it wrong to shampoo? biblically and morally? or am i fulfilling a purpose to continue abstaining from sex? please pardon me if i overstepped...

 

It only takes one to put you in jail.
You can't very well fix a generation already there. I mean, just like RB said he can't go without it. Well it is hard being a teenager with the highest testosterone count you will ever have and not pumping some willing bimbette. But you will have a lot more success teaching prepubesent kids about abstinence than you will changing already active juveniles.
But the waters really get muddied with our society in general. We have come to expect instant gratification and have taught our children by example that if it feels good do it. It doesn't matter what you say when your 11 year old daughter comes to daddy's house for the weekend and he is entertaining a differnt girlfriend every week. Then be all surprised when she comes home pregnant at 14.

 

I think that is one of natures most cruel tricks... that being the giving of all those hormones to young people, when they dont have the maturity or financial ability to deal with the problems that unmarried sex can create. I wish nature hadn't give me my hormones until I was 24, it would have saved me and my numerous girlfriends a lot of headaches. If young people didnt get the hormones, they wouldnt go in season, therefore sd's, pregancy , would all but vanish, yeah I know, and there is little green men on mars,

 

come on guys. why dont we just sit back and enjoy life? sex is a natural thing and i agree you should do it safely. thats all i have to say about this, because im just a dirty old man!

 

Vanhecht
We come across varying beliefs as to ... shampooing. The Marine Corps official line is that it constitutes misuse of government property. The medical establishment leans toward the concept of occasional pipe-cleaning being healthy. Hugh Hefner actually supports your stand on shampooing premaritally as a good thing and keeping your trousers zipped as even better.

That said, not shampooing, or having your lady friend assist you occasionally causes some embarrassing messes. My personal stand? Shampoo often and enjoy. I am proud you stand so tight to your convictions and applaud you.

On an unrelated note, how was the birthday party? Did you wear blues or greens?

 

haha shampooing? sorry

 

What? Shampooing, lather, warmth, nice clean feeling, sweet dreams-all good!

 

i prefer lotion

 

you should eat when you're hungry
sleep when you're tired
and make love whenever possible

responsably, of course

 

i went in my blues lookin all sharp with my new blood stripes and extra chevron, along with a combat action ribbon, presidential unit citation, and an armed forces exped. , wasnt a bad ceremony at all, though dinner wasnt worth the 50 i paid

 

huh?

 

kill when were angry
steal when we don't have
run when we don't want to face it
use whomever for whatever purpose and throw them away when were done

That is a dangerous line of thinking, born of no discipline and no morals. It's the way that animals act. Although I must admit that it is part of the degradation of our society(what some people call "this day in age"), it's not the way we should be headed.

For those that have the disipline and self control, abstinence is a valid and workable option. The problem is that discipline, self control and accountability are being taught to our youth in fewer and fewer homes, and almost none of the schools. As a matter of fact, most of the schools do everything they can to contradict what good values are being taught at home.

We have plenty of opportunity over our lifetime to do the wrong thing.....we just have to be self controlled enough to do the right ones.

Eating when we need food, not just because were hungry:
It makes the meal taste that much better and satisfies our hunger even more.

Losing sleep to finish something that we know needs to be completed or to resolve something that needs resolved:
You wake up a little more tired, but the project or issue is not hanging over your head.

Waiting until we are married for intimacy with another person:
Besides the obvious reduction of risk from prenancy and STDs, the bond of two people that are intimate only inside of a marriage is only strenthened by that fidelity.

We are not animals and we should be using more than an animals instinct to govern our lives.

Pyro

 

at no point did my statement condone killing, or stealing, or using someone

making love is not an act of self gratification, but a loving act of mutual gratification
there is a similar act of self gratification, but I refer to that with a four letter word begining with F

as far as I know hunger is usually caused by the need for food

and as for sleep, have you ever tried to complete a project when you were too tired, and had to go back and redo parts you messed up due to being half-awake?

personaly, I wouldn't marry a girl who was a virgin.
sex is a very large thing, and no amount of preparation can make a person truly understand it without firsthand experience.sex is a subjective thing, and slightly different for all people.some things I have done pleasurably with one girl, were very awkward with another girl, and completely out of the question with yet another girl.
you don't know how you'll feel about sex untill you actually experience it. for some it is a life governing pursuit, others can take it or leave it. some like it kinda wholesome, and others like to get real freaky. this is all well and good if your partner has the same inclinations as you, but if not, watch out you're in for trouble!
some people are just repulsed by sex but they can still have a very fulfilling marriage, if sex is not important to their partner.
some people are sexual deviants, but if they marry another sexual deviant, they have a safe outlet for their urges, and it is less of a focus in their public life.

myself I would rather have a woman who has a little experience
not a tramp mind you, but a woman who knows what she likes, and can make an informed choice as to whether I'm the man she wants to be with, then it is an ego boost that I'm the guy this WOMAN chooses to be with
otherwise I feel guilty like I am with a GIRL that I may or may not have fooled into thinking she wants to be with me, when she really doesn't know what she wants