Who was wrong ?
So, to answer your question. 50 - 50 on whether you were right or wrong in challenging the girls...100% right in your feeling that the manager was wrong.
Were the girls pretty?
Last edited by kw5413; Jun 1, 2007 at 08:50 AM.
As far as using the facilities w/out patronizing the business, I do it quite often on my daily commute. Of course, I'm not a gaggle of 9 women clogging up the flow of the restroom for a half hour to the detriment of the paying customers.
Last edited by stu37d; Jun 1, 2007 at 09:22 AM.
i wasnt going to even post this but hell, 3 or 4 weeks ago, im standing in the frozen section of the local grocery store.
a woman about 30 feet down from me, was fishing through the items, items falling on the ground inside the freezer, takes what she wants and walks away leaving the door open about 2 feet.
she walks by and i said, you left that freezer door open, she said mind your business.
i said some class your showing, can imagine what the rest is like.
i can get sarcastic, and hold my own in many ways. i felt bad afterwards for what i said, but dang this aint no barn, and i wont stand to be talk to that way.
Last edited by freirefishing; Jun 1, 2007 at 09:35 AM. Reason: added, mispell
I would send a polite note to the corporate office.
I was working in Oxnard Ca. and staying at the Hilton. It was a small hilton, more like a courtyards. Small "bar and grill" in the lobby.
I was working long hours and did not want to drive somewhere to eat so for three nights I put up with this bartender/waitress abusing ALL of the customers. I mean nasty and rude.
One letter to corporate, they comped my stay.
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and given their track record of nasty attitude, i would never go there again, and tell everyone else not to either.
First I want to say this is not meant to be an attack against you or anything, simply my opinion on the situation. You seem to be a pretty stand up guy overall.
I think pretty much everybody was wrong.
The ladies were wrong for completely taking up the bathroom especially for such a long time, and if they had no intention on purchasing anything.
The clerk was wrong for bringing it to the manager unless one of the ladies had complained to him (you didn't mention that).
The manager was wrong for yelling at you. He had every right to politley ask you not to make comments like that to his customers though.
You were wrong for making that particular comment, as it is not your business and it shoudln't matter to you if they were customers or not. However, I would have had no problem if you had made a comment to the fact that you did not appreciate them hogging the bathroom for so long and not allowing Michele to use it.
Finally just an overall comment. Why didn't Michele just use the men's room? I realize she shouldn't have to, but in an emergency I see no problem with you checking the room first and standing outside the door as she used the facilities. I have run into similar situations before and most people do not have a problem with things like that.
I agree with the others that you should try to write a letter or make a phone call to let them know about the poor customer relations displayed by the manager. It is one thing to politley ask a customer to leave other people alone, but it is another thing altogether to raise your voice and threaten.
as for saying something to them as they're walking out, i wldn't have waited that long to say something as i've already stated. if i had, and some employee called the manager over in that situation and he didn't listen to my polite explanation, i'd'a informed him in a loud but not yelling tone of voice (mine carries VERY well w/o yelling at all) in front of his other customers that they weren't his customers they were stealing his bathroom supplies for 30 mins becuz they didn't purchase anything and if that's how he was going to treat his PAYING customers he cld damn straight count on a complaint to his superiors and the franchise and to NEVER see my money in his establishment again.
but then.. i'm a *not nice word*
as for the breakfast thing, if i'd ordered breakfast at 1020 and they brought me burgers and didn't say anything over the speaker at the time i ordered, they'd'a given me my money back or my breakfast food and wld have gotten the same expect a complaint statement becuz that's major mad BS.
even though i'm in accounting i also deal regularly with customer svc issues at work and you don't keep your customers if you keep treating them like that. unfortunately with a franchise it doesn't matter if you treat one like crap cuz one's not going really affect the biz.. specially if it's on a freeway somewhere where they get a LOT of one time customers... most people don't bother to complain, i bother and i would in this case as well.
While I am on your side with the bathroom deal, I think you are on your own for the breakfast thing. (LOL) The early bird gets the worm, and he who gets to the golden arches before 10:30 a.m. gets breakfast.
Until 11:30 am on Sundays
Breakfast issue:
Michele and I had just come from the hospital from her giving blood.
We don't have a lot of money and I have A&W coupons and she loves their food.She needs handheld sandwiches and A & W is the best.
I got into the parking lost at 10:56 am.I went into the store.
There was a fella named ART standing in line without getting any attention from the counter staff.
I got their attention.
I said this gentlemen and I would like to order some food.
Art says: I would like the classic breakfast and coffee.
With Michele at my side ,I said I would like 2 breakfasts and coffee as well please.
The counter girl looks up at the clock and is shows 10:59.
Just a sec I'll check to see if it is okay.
Cook says: " It;s after 11:00 o'clock..we no serve breakfast anymore.....we serve Lunch"
I said: But the deal is A&W serves breakfast until 11:00am.The closk says 10:59.
Cook says: "My clock says past 11:00"
I said My watch and the store clock say 10:59
Back and forth..and Art ( 75 yo+) was upset as he wanted breakfast and had been waiting in line for 5 minutes.
Just as I was trying to get my point across 2 vehicles came to the drive thru and ordered burgers.
After all the arguing was done the time was now 11:05.
The owner said he saw the video tape and it shows us at 11:04 am assuming that was when we first ordered it and said he saw burger patties on the grill.
He later found out about this altercation and asked me when I am going to apologise to his cooks.
I said right after they and you apologise to Michele and I for thumbing their noses at us.
Now.... bear in mind when the old staff (that has since quit because of the turmoil at this place)... would do what was necessary for the new and valuable customers.
I haven't returned and won't.
There are at least 15 places here to eat at ...lif I don't feel like cooking.
Last edited by Mil1ion; Jun 1, 2007 at 10:07 PM.






