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start by replacing the speed sensor located on top of the rear differential. If the issue continues your 4wabs module located under the washer fluid resiviour is probably suspect as all this travels thru it. You can test this by placing jumper wires into several pins.
If the computer isn't getting a vehicle speed signal the trans will shift hard and erratically. Fix the speed issue and the trans will almost certainly be fine..