Here is an update for all interested, installed GEM from nicmike and we now know that it is not the gem module, how ever with uninstalling the fuse panel and reinstalling the unit we fixed the problem with the lights how ever now the problem is I had to disconnect the factory alarm system module and now the alarm kicked on the antitheft and wont let me start the truck, it will crank just not start and rapid blinking light on dash..
so if anyone knows how to fix by tonight would be great since she is my daily driver for work.

 

also if anyone knows if unhooking the alarm module would erase the codes for the key pats system let me know also. all the reading says the rapid theft dash light means the pats is not being read,

 

well I have to say that my truck is fixed and this all stemmed from a bad switch in the overhead console and a huge thank you to nicmike for all the help trouble shooting all the trouble I was having and If anyone needs electrical help with there rig make sure you contact this man. he knows his stuff and was a great help. thank you again