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on my mind? my ex. what she did, that someone could do that. What she has become. that she doesn't see it. See what is happening, that it is not my place to do a dang thing about it, and the fact that after what she did, I don't/can't take her back. My loss in the faith of humanity for what they are or aren't capable of.
As for constructive ways to take it out....mm..lookin for stuff, thinkin about pickin up the guitar again, tryin to not drink as much...at least nto get as drunk all the time anyways. still tryin to learn how to talk to females....just got shot down again about an hour ago.
old hobby---cars (cost money, in college :P ) I would LOVE to get back to it...just cant afford it atm....hence why I am in school :P
new hobby hmm...well.. guitar may help...and that doesnt cost much except the initial investment methinks...tryin to get back into playing pool, hangin out with old and new friends, playin Halo3 (on a friends system..I dont have it)
I know what you mean about ex's. My ex (we were together 5 1/2 years) decided we werent right together. She moved out while I was @ work. I gave that girl everything that she ever wanted. Now she has nothing living with a guy that won't keep a job. I wonder if she ever looks back and thinks d@#$ what was I thinking. Well it was her loss. I found a good girl and just had to marry her.
After I met my wife she saw that I was serious about some one else and decided that she wanted to come home. I told her that it was too late.
Man don't let her get to you. Their is a lot of girls around tech. Have fun. The best way to get her off of your mind is a rebound chick.
Hey man, I hear ya. I hate moving. hmm depending on exactly when it is man, I am headed down to BR and NO for mardi gras (family is from BR) but if your movin that weekend, I will at least help grab a load or two on my way through town, wouldnt set me back too far on that trip. well see though man, just let me know when
Had to go see my ex yesterday, she asked me what was wrong...I didn't tell her but I thought of my list of issues right now...
I am a really angry and bitter person right now.
Who decides that you are angry and bitter? Both are a natural response to a hurtful circumstance, but you alone must decide if the experience makes you more or less than you were.
on my mind? my ex. what she did, that someone could do that. What she has become. that she doesn't see it. See what is happening, that it is not my place to do a dang thing about it, and the fact that after what she did, I don't/can't take her back. My loss in the faith of humanity for what they are or aren't capable of.
13 years ago I could have written those same words, right to the letter. My ex decided/discovered she was gay, cheated on me, then claimed that I had abused my daughter in a attempt to remove me from the picture. She has since been a marginal mother and made it difficult for me to have any say about our kids. I could go on, but you get the picture.
I could make a list of things that I did to get past that whole situation, but it would be quite long. The single most important thing that I HAD to do was forgive her. Prior to that, I was becoming very bitter, vengeful and angry. I even seriously considered taking some illegal action against her, and that is certainly NOT me. Forgive doesn't mean forget, nor does it make anything she did ok. It just relieved me of the internal stress of dealing with it. Had I not done that, I would likely be in prison or dead by now. She has to live with what she did, but it is not eating away at me anymore.
Hope this helps a bit.
It takes time to get over hurt. Boy..do I know that for a fact!!
What I did, was get back into my hobbies..started carving and getting good feedback from that, encouraging me to continue. Pretty soon...not as soon as I'd wished.... I realized that I was pretty danged happy again, being single and NOT looking. Next thing I knew.. well...we've been together since winter of 88, thereabouts. Been married for..egad...I'm a man..I don't remember the year!
the best way to get over an ex , is live your life successful! not bitter and angery.then when ever you are seen by her, she will wonder if she should have stuck around, she will wonder about all she is missing out on. that is the best revenge you will get,and its good therapy for you living a possitive life. you will love again, and it will be a greater love than the one you lost(trust me on that). keep on truckin'-billy
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