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From: The Great North~West!
Originally Posted by Jimmy Dean
...still tryin to learn how to talk to females....just got shot down again about an hour ago.
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From: La Tech University, La
I know it is scaring them away...some have even mentioned it. :/ I know that it isn't helping me. The fact that I am still having to deal with crap from all this is just prolonging it. (There are financial matters I cannot go into online exactly, but will be asking for advice on it tomorrow...yall will be able to piece it together)
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From: Lorain County, Ohio
Originally Posted by Snowbunny
You may not realize it, but your bitterness shows when you talk about women. I'm sure it shows when you try to talk to women. You may do well to not even go there until you are able to resolve your feelings from this one, first. It will just scare them away and make you feel even worse towards women.... Clean the slate,,, then try again!!!
You aren't fit for "human consumption" until you can get past your bad feelings. It will show through, no matter how much you try to hide or cover it up. Another woman in your life won't make it better, and it may just poison an opportunity. BTDT.
You might find a gal that feeds on your problems and thrives on your current chaos, but once your drama is over, she will be unsatisfied too. I've also BTDT with wife #2. Luckily, I didn't find a replacement for #2 right away. Being without sucks, but I see now where it was for the better. I've been single now for 4 years and am quite happy. If the next Ex-Mrs. A. comes along, well...we'll see. Until then, I'm doing what I wanted to do after I got married the first time.
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From: Atlanta GA
God can take all that bitterness away if you ask him to. Just ask once a day in the morning, quietly in your mind, and thank him for another day.
As for secular matters, if you share finance/resources right now, then don't earn a lot of money. Be as poor as possible if this is a divorce. Spend your spare time learning to make more money with another skill.
Clear up all matters you need to (I assume no children) and make a clean break.
Then put the saying "the best revenge is success" to good use and get as rich as possible. Working hard will put the memory of her far behind and all things being equal, you will earn much more money then she ever will, up to 30% more by national stats.
Make a clean break, never see her again, get rich (act poor), and in 2 years then consider dating again.
As for secular matters, if you share finance/resources right now, then don't earn a lot of money. Be as poor as possible if this is a divorce. Spend your spare time learning to make more money with another skill.
Clear up all matters you need to (I assume no children) and make a clean break.
Then put the saying "the best revenge is success" to good use and get as rich as possible. Working hard will put the memory of her far behind and all things being equal, you will earn much more money then she ever will, up to 30% more by national stats.
Make a clean break, never see her again, get rich (act poor), and in 2 years then consider dating again.
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From: La Tech University, La
not a divorce just seein as how we had until I guess somewhat recently planne don our lives being together, some things both of us hwere in on...in a legal sense, since someone....decided not to pay certain things and not let me know....I am in quite a fix on some issues. 
as far as making more money then her....she is going to be a teacher, high school...I am working on my BS for mech. engineering...I can do the math. :P I 'should' be making more by my 5th year as her and her current beau would be making together by that point with his line of work.
as far as making more money then her....she is going to be a teacher, high school...I am working on my BS for mech. engineering...I can do the math. :P I 'should' be making more by my 5th year as her and her current beau would be making together by that point with his line of work.
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From: Kalispell, Mt.
Just take your time Jimmy. Don't hurry yourself. The more you chase happiness, the more it'll run from you. Get on with your life, do the things ya want to do and that happiness will be staring ya in the face before ya know it.
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From: liberty lake,WA USA
We all create our own reality,
if you think it that is what you will become.
Tell your-self you are happy and a good person set goals and work for them.
To hell with the ex . I wasted years of my life angry at the world over a women
and the only people that got hurt were the ones that I loved the most.
Have faith in God.
if you think it that is what you will become.
Tell your-self you are happy and a good person set goals and work for them.
To hell with the ex . I wasted years of my life angry at the world over a women
and the only people that got hurt were the ones that I loved the most.
Have faith in God.
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Joined: Jan 2007
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From: liberty lake,WA USA
We all create our own reality,
if you think it that is what you will become.
Tell your-self you are happy and a good person set goals and work for them.
To hell with the ex . I wasted years of my life angry at the world over a women
and the only people that got hurt were the ones that I loved the most.
Have faith in God.
if you think it that is what you will become.
Tell your-self you are happy and a good person set goals and work for them.
To hell with the ex . I wasted years of my life angry at the world over a women
and the only people that got hurt were the ones that I loved the most.
Have faith in God.
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Jimmy good friends can also help take your mind off of her. I'm not too far from you. If you need some one to talk to you have my email address or pm me. I'll give you my number. Maybe we can meet up and shoot the bull.
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When I was a young man, I got dumped by a girl that I was sure that I would marry after going with her for about a year.
One day I got a dear John face to face. It hurt like nothing else.
It was the best thing that could have happened.
A friend introduced me to another girl and we were married nine months later. I've been married to her for over 40 years and I love her more than ever.
If life hands you a lemon...make lemonade.
One day I got a dear John face to face. It hurt like nothing else.
It was the best thing that could have happened.
A friend introduced me to another girl and we were married nine months later. I've been married to her for over 40 years and I love her more than ever.
If life hands you a lemon...make lemonade.
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From: Anchorage Alaska
Eat some sausages and get over it life could be much worse, u could be in iraq with car bombs going off in your face as your being shot at by savages. Pleanty of women out there pull up your britches and move on.
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