My sister did back in 77,'She started dating one brother in 75 then #2 brother in 76, she married the number 2 brother in 77 when she was 19
She has alomst had 28 years with him & they made 5 children together.

How's that for " The Switch" ?

 

Why did she say that she was tired and getting pissy and says stuff,and then she told me all that crap. Was it just to cover herself in case she wanted to retract everylthing later? I will ask her today what the hell is going on that I feel I have enough on my plate already. She told her mom that she wanted a messauge and then when we waited fot her sister I was going to give her one and then that is when she said she hates being touched......... I'm guessing just by me anyway. I never know whether she is coming or going saying that what a great guy I am and putting her hand on my thigh and then that. Then the whole friends thing....Oh well I got a buddy to go with me to the dinner. So How does it go " bros before hoes"
I haven't even asked her to go to the grad dinner and I don't think I will. Maybe all ask her sister ooooppppps she has a boyfriend...nevermind. What did those comments mean by her sister?
Dustin

 

"....Her sister thinks she treats me like trash...."

Let me translate this for you:
Her sister thinks she treats me like trash.

Dustin,
WAKE UP!
Loose this girl. You're too nice of guy to be waisting your time with this gal.

 

Ya and the sister well is nice..........There is one thing I mean person in my way and I will NOT do it no matter how much I want to.So I guess no going to Schlitterbaughn?
What about given the family a graduation invination?

 

"What about given the family a graduation invination?"

No.

You will just be prolonging any agony you're already feeling over this.

Be done with it.

 

You already know by her actions what ya need to do. She would return your affection if she wanted you. Like 'ol Snoop says 'Drop it like its hot'. Do yourself a favor and don't prolong this. When you talk to her today tell her the 'just friends' sounds good and you'll see her around and walk away. You may get a little nookie playing hard to get and then you can head out with a big smile on your face :O. Oh don't act like ya'll ain't ever done that. Good luck with it. We understand women, but we don't listen to what our head tells us.

 

There is some part of you that thinks 'it'll get better', or maybe even 'it's not so bad'.

Well it won't, and it will get worse.
Plain and simple.
Life is way too short to put up with this.
Now, if you start pushing/staying away, she might even find you more attractive. Don't fall for it.

Get yourself someone that values you, no someone that thinks you ought to be gratful for allowing you to be with them.

It might take a while, but it'll be worth it.

 

Here is my take on this girl. She is not interested in anything except being a friend with you. You sound like a good guy, and she is taking full advantage of this. You might not be exactly her type, but your safe, and she'll stick around until she finds someone she thinks is her type. More than likely, it'll be the bad-boy type. Don't get serious with this one. If you don't mind just hanging out with her, then by all means go for it. But she will never turn serious on you. Even she gets more touchy feely, she'll be just stringing you along.
Her sister on the other hand, seems to be more mature and has her head on straight. She knows her sister Much better than you. There for, if she is saying that the girl is acting like a jerk, then take the sister's word for it. By her saying this, does not mean that she is interested in you. It just means that she is a nice girl, and she knows that your a good guy that doesn't deserve to be treated like that.
I also have a sister that is a whack who is very high maintenance.

 

Dustin, don't put yourself through this again. Is this the same girl that invited you to the family BBQ and an overnight stay? If so, don't put up with it. The hand on the thigh, you know that was not going anywhere. Don't read things into this that are not going to happen. Wishfull thinking is what will hurt you. Sounds like she just wants to take and take. Move on, now.

Switching sisters. Three in one family and two in another family. I was not the parents most favroite person. The three was just to make the main one jealous. It worked. The two, I was dating one of them when she got killed in a plane crash. Then I started to date her younger sister with in the week. Not a good thing to do. We had to keep it a secert from her parents. That was along time ago.

Tom

 

I have to vote with the "run, don't walk" crowd here. If there's a common thread us older guys can share, it's that it does get easier, it does get less complex, and it really gets a lot more enjoyable as time goes on.

 

I called her sister and asked her what was up and she was wondering why I completely ignored her at work yesterday. I told her sister that she like totaly locked up when I was giving her a messauge and then about the drive home. I told her sister that I was pissed at what went on friday that I'd better not say anything so I didn't. She sister said that they aren't a really touchy feely family and that is what happened she said she is the same way with her boyfriend and he was where I was at 3 years ago. Her sister was very helpful and finally got me to talk to her. She has to go to a friends mom's funeral Wensday so she will not be at work I told her that My phone is always on if she needs someone to talk to. I have had friends stuck at 2:30am on school nights that call me to get them out. I have done that repeatedly. people call me when they need a ride home from a party...... I go to get them without hesitation. I told her if she needed anything at all. She knows my work # and my home # Along with anyone in her family. I have found that I get attached to people who are nice to me and will help them in any way I can. I also told her that when I started talking to her I was looking for someone to talk to help me through things. And I would be thier in the same respect for her. She asked me if I wanted to go this weekend to the lake with her cousins and sister and her boyfriend. We got off the phone with her jokingly saying she will take me down in the lawn and garden department. I said ya I can't wait. She knows I'm stronger but she likes to talk like that anyway. The competitive family thing taking over thier I guess

 

One day you will look back at this and Grin a couple of times.

I could hardly wait for my first Massage from a G/F.

 

WHAT?!?! <img src='http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_20_2.gif' border=0></a>

-Matt

 

When the right "partner" comes along you will know it. Where you go, what you do and how much it cost will not be an issue. Spending time together will be the issue.

One thing I learned a long long time ago, is that you and your partner do not have to agree with everything that you do. What we must do is respect each others position and resolve to the fact that the difference of opinion has nothing to do with how I feel about you

34 years and still get along just great.


Russ

 

I have to agree with RangerRuss, so far I have 2.5 years with my girl and yes, is not about how much or how far, this is about wanting to be together !!! and yes you don't have to agree in everything (that will be very boring LOL) and let me tell you,

<!I'm a girl and if you think that men-women is hard try to imagine a woman-woman relation (i hope I'm not offending anyone)!>