Hey, so I need help I usually don't have a problem with going up to guys and talking to them about me liking them but this guy is different!! I have a crush on a guy that I have known for awhile and he knows! But I don't know whether or not to say anything to him!!(maybe he is shy and doesn't want to talk to me himself) So what should I do!! I mean we are friends, but I don't know how to persue a guy of his style! I don't know that much about his "love life" it's kind of crazy! But the funny thing is he is a member and has his truck on here! it's a ford f-150 1978! and he is obviously from wisconsin! but guys what should I do!!HELP!!
-Kristie-

 

just flirt a bit and be yourself. if all else fails just ask em. whats the worst could happen? not much so just go with your gut. ask him if he want to go to lunch one day. ask him if he wants to go hang out for a while, or whatever you think you 2 will enjoy. not what you think you will enjoy or just he will. make sure you both enjoy the situation and not alot of pressure. that why i would start with a lunch.

EDIT:
how old are you2?

 

Ask him for help working on your truck.

 

If he is a member of FTE send him a pm, ask him out to lunch. If you want to ask be prepared for rejection, that comes with life. You may find he is not what you thought, so you will never know if you do not ask.

Life is fun, standing by and watching it pass is not. Be yourself and do what you think is right, posting in here you must need a little push...

 

...So, any of you male FTEr's from Wisconsin with a 1978 F-150: HERE'S YOUR CHANCE! I mean, how many can there BE?!

 

Do they have Victoria Secrets shops in Wisconsin?
That'l get his attention!

 

I don't usually like a lot of BS. I would suggest starting with this question: "Would you like to go to dinner with me?"
Then listen closely for his answer. When he gives you his answer, go from there.

Good luck!

 

There are very few things I've done in my life that I regret. Most of my regrets are things I didn't do. It's easy to do nothing but it isn't very rewarding.

 

Go out in a group ( like maybe 2 girls 2 guys) to a mud run, truck show, ect. but not as in a date just yet. That way it wont feel so weird at first, and you can have a way out if he becomes a jerk. Your friend will be there to talk to.

mike

 

Wether he is shy or not he probably like most men do not want to be rejected. Short of a girl running up to me and throwing herself in my arms and telling me that she loves me, I don't know what women are feeling about me. The thought of being rejected scares me to death. So you should take the bull by the horns and let him know how you feel.

Eddie

 

Well, I would like to thank you for the good advice but I don't know how often he is on FTE!! but i will try that and maybe I will just make a point of talking to him when I c him around! Thanks again!!

 

It's okay Kristie... you can tell them that you are actually talking about me, and the "oc" in your username actually stands for Oklahoma City... hehe... just kidding.

Like everybody else said, you NEVER know unless you ask.

STan

 

You could always start by letting him know that you both are part of the FTE family. So far I haven't seen any FTE family reject any other FTE person. You will never know until you start to talk to him.

Tom

 

Tell him that you're CRAZY about his truck....that always brings my attention to a lady!
Scott

 

thanx Traxxis! I will have to say that! but I thought that oc stood for oak creek and ok stood for Oklahoma! but yes I will have to try all of your advice!! -Kristie