Ok, I'm a 19 year old college student. There's this 17 year old(almost 18) girl in my computer class. She is extremely beautiful. Our first day of class about 2 weeks ago I was looking at her in class and she smiled at me and I started to blush a little. I'm extremely shy around chicks. She knows this other dude that I talk to during class breaks and she came up to us and started talking to me. The next day we were talking about cars and I took her outside to show her my bronco. She said she liked it and all. She also knew that I don't like smoking in my bronco but let her anyway. She then asked in a flirting way " If I bring my car over your house would you wash it and make it nice and shiney like yours and get the rims as shiney as yours". The next day she wanted a pack of cigarettes. She said her foster parents forbid her from going anywhere with guys during school but she went with me. She said she didn't have any cash and I said "don't worry about it". She insisted she'd pay me back and I still said don't worry about it. Later on she was telling me about how she went to the mall over the weekend and tried on some shirt that wouldn't fit because her ***** are too big. So pretty much the past 2 days or so that we've known eachother we sit in my truck during our 2 hour class breaks and bs.
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE SHE LIKES ME AS MORE THAN JUST A FRIEND? I told this to a friend of mine and he said yes and that if I don't make a move he outta kick my butt.

 

Don't be to shy & ask her out to dinner (do young people still do that?). What would you be losing? Nothing & you will know where everything stands between you & her.

If you don't & find out at later date that you should have it may be to late.

 

she likes you... just make sure that she doesn't use you...

 

Keep your guard up.
Don't spend money on a person you have just met.

Let HER be independent.

Me,I would never buy smokes for someone ( Ken's cigars the exception here)

Flirting ?
Yep & so far she has you where she wants you...Wanting More

If you wish to do things with her...go & do things that don't cost anything.
Walks in the park kind of thing, School event,etc

 

My first suggestion is dont let yourself get thrown in the clink. Second...yes, dinner. Feel her out, not up, to get a handle on her personality.
From my personal experiance....watch out that she isnt really looking for a father figure. If she is, she wont know it. Like you say, shes a foster child. Its possible shes looking for a father figures confidence and acceptance. Yea, only two years, but you are older. It took a few bucks for me to get a handle on this thought process in a girls mind. It does happen. If it is the case, you wont know till its too late. Just be careful that its not way too late. I wish I woulda listened the first time it happened to me, but nope, I let it happen twice. If this doesnt make sense, your still safe. Sorry if I babbled too much. No, I wasnt bashing foster children.

 

Run, Forrest, Run!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Well she is a talker first of all. She once told me that her real dad beat the crap out of her and that her real parents tried to kidnap her from her foster parents. I told her I feel bad and was sorry to hear that. Oh and one more thing. Me , her, and some older dude I know were talikng about girls that tan too much and wear too much makeup and look like a barbie doll etc. She said she would't mind being a barbie doll. I said to her "where's Ken?" She said she hasn't found him yet. So I don't know if she likes me that way first of all. I'm confused.

 

What is this supposed to mean?

 

Girls that come from chaos will be chaotic, being a foster child indicatates that she might of been raised in that kind of situation. Not saying you shouldn't date her or anything, just procede with caution

 

I would guess that Tx60guy is saying, hope I'm not out of line here, and wrong....but I'm thinking..............
Its polite to carry a ladies bags, but it unhealthy to carry her baggage.

 

I would have to re-phrase that.

Its polite to carry a ladies bags, but it unhealthy to carry her AS baggage..

There are alot of ladies that are independent & carry their own. Don't do what I did & marry one that isn't. You will regret it later in life.

 

You're pretty close, Peppy.

From your description, Bronco, I just have bad vibes about this girl. The smoking, the sexual overtones, the parents hate me, etc. just really make me concerned that you could easily get in over your head fast.

Peppy might also have said, "Don't let the little head do the thinking for the big one." I hope that meets the FTE standards. I don't want to violate the standards, but you may need a strong message of caution.

I wish the best for you as you go forward.

 

Ok this is getting off the subject now. To me she sounds like she's more indepentent than I am right now. My question was does she like me as more than a friend according to my description.

 

I think its too early to tell...

 

I think you'll know when she throws you down.