Notices
2017 - 2022 Super Duty The 2017-2022 Ford F250, F350, F450, F550 & F600 Super Duty Pickup and Chassis Cab
Sponsored by:
Sponsored by: CARiD

Advice / Opinion

Thread Tools
 
Search this Thread
 
Old Nov 21, 2021 | 03:57 PM
  #1  
Doug Savage's Avatar
Doug Savage
Thread Starter
|
Tuned
Joined: Apr 2021
Posts: 388
Likes: 231
Advice / Opinion

So, a kid from a family I know backed into my 450 in a parking lot. The truck I’ve waited my adult lifetime to have of course…

Am I being a jerk to have this repaired?? Two half -dollar dings in the front bumper. He it with his truck hitch. (Bottom chrome)



 
Reply
Old Nov 21, 2021 | 04:05 PM
  #2  
George C's Avatar
George C
Cargo Master
Joined: Oct 2005
Posts: 2,866
Likes: 515
From: WNY
Well, if the kids father is a stand up guy, you shouldn’t even have to ask.
If he isn’t, I would try a dent guy first. If not up to new, then it’s a question you will have to ask yourself. Is the friendship worth it?

Luckily, it’s not body damage. .
 
Old Nov 21, 2021 | 04:08 PM
  #3  
KeystoneF350's Avatar
KeystoneF350
Tuned
5 Year Member
Liked
Loved
Community Favorite
Joined: Feb 2020
Posts: 432
Likes: 132
Perhaps you could price a replacement bumper since it's a pretty straightforward bolt-on swap. Let the kid's dad know and see if he is willing to pay for it if you do the install.
 
Reply
Old Nov 21, 2021 | 04:14 PM
  #4  
Qvan666's Avatar
Qvan666
More Turbo
20 Year Member
Liked
Loved
Community Favorite
Joined: Oct 2003
Posts: 527
Likes: 289
From: Wonderful, Fun, Pahrump!
I am OCD about these things. Yes I would ask to have him repair it and if that didn't pan out turn it over to your insurance and go after him in small claims court for the deductible. Harsh, yes. There is something about being a responsible adult and taking care of issues you cause. Just because you know the family does not absolve them of the responsibility to fix it.

bob
 
Reply
Old Nov 21, 2021 | 04:17 PM
  #5  
Grass Lake Ron's Avatar
Grass Lake Ron
Cargo Master
Liked
Loved
Community Favorite
Top Answer: 1
Joined: Nov 2020
Posts: 2,073
Likes: 1,027
From: Michigan
Originally Posted by George C
Well, if the kids father is a stand up guy, you shouldn’t even have to ask.
If he isn’t, I would try a dent guy first. If not up to new, then it’s a question you will have to ask yourself. Is the friendship worth it?

Luckily, it’s not body damage. .
Well said George.
 
Reply
Old Nov 21, 2021 | 05:10 PM
  #6  
morehouse7's Avatar
morehouse7
Fleet Mechanic
Photogenic
Liked
Loved
Community Favorite
Joined: Mar 2021
Posts: 1,455
Likes: 607
Originally Posted by George C
Well, if the kids father is a stand up guy, you shouldn’t even have to ask.
If he isn’t, I would try a dent guy first. If not up to new, then it’s a question you will have to ask yourself. Is the friendship worth it?

Luckily, it’s not body damage. .
Furthermore the kid is driving so the kid should know enough to offer up some resolution on their own. I wouldn't be as concerned about the dents as much as the opportunity for a teaching moment. If the kid came up to me and asked how I wanted to proceed I would shake their hand and say, "you did the right thing try and pay attention next time, don't worry about the dents.."
 
Reply
Old Nov 21, 2021 | 05:11 PM
  #7  
mcmurm's Avatar
mcmurm
More Turbo
5 Year Member
Liked
Loved
Community Favorite
Joined: Jul 2020
Posts: 709
Likes: 188
I would put a solid effort into finding middle ground where you get the damage repaired but hopefully at a lesser cost for the kid. Like Keystone stated above.

You want to show good faith in the relationship but it's also a disservice if you let the kid go without any ramifications. He needs to know and understand that one of the challenges of life is the consequences of actions.
 
Reply

Trending Topics

Old Nov 21, 2021 | 05:13 PM
  #8  
Grass Lake Ron's Avatar
Grass Lake Ron
Cargo Master
Liked
Loved
Community Favorite
Top Answer: 1
Joined: Nov 2020
Posts: 2,073
Likes: 1,027
From: Michigan
Originally Posted by morehouse7
Furthermore the kid is driving so the kid should know enough to offer up some resolution on their own. I wouldn't be as concerned about the dents as much as the opportunity for a teaching moment. If the kid came up to me and asked how I wanted to proceed I would shake their hand and say, "you did the right thing try and pay attention next time, don't worry about the dents.."
Again... Well said.
 
Reply
FTE Stories

Ford Trucks for Ford Truck Enthusiasts

story-0

This Hennessey Takes the Expedition Tremor's Off-Roading Capability to the Next Level

 Verdad Gallardo
story-1

Top 10 Fords at 2026 Carlisle Ford Nationals

 Joe Kucinski
story-2

3 Best / 3 Worst Parts of Modern Ford Ownership

 Brett Foote
story-3

10 Amazing Upgrades That Solve Common Ford Truck Owner Headaches

 Pouria Savadkouei
story-4

Every 2026 Ford Engine Explained

 Brett Foote
story-5

10 Ugly Ford Trucks That We Still Kinda Love

 Joe Kucinski
story-6

10 Things Every Truck Owner NEEDS (2026 Edition)

 Michael S. Palmer
story-7

Rezvani's Latest Post-Apocalyptic Monster Is a Ford F-150 Raptor Underneath

 Verdad Gallardo
story-8

Top 10 Most Expensive Ford Trucks Ever Sold on Bring a Trailer

 Joe Kucinski
story-9

2027 Ford Super Duty Buyer's Guide (Every Model, Engine, & Package)

 Brett Foote
Old Nov 21, 2021 | 05:27 PM
  #9  
ejb69's Avatar
ejb69
More Turbo
10 Year Member
Liked
Loved
Community Favorite
Joined: Jan 2016
Posts: 684
Likes: 84
From: Green Bay Wi
I’m not seeing anything worth fixing, it’s a truck they get beat up.
 
Reply
Old Nov 21, 2021 | 05:32 PM
  #10  
4wd6.7L's Avatar
4wd6.7L
Lead Driver
Liked
Loved
Community Favorite
Top Answer: 1
Joined: Dec 2020
Posts: 8,640
Likes: 2,435
Originally Posted by ejb69
I’m not seeing anything worth fixing, it’s a truck they get beat up.
Not everyone has that "it's a truck" mentality. I take the same care with my truck as any other vehicle I own. Crap happens, but it's one thing when you the owner screws up, it's another thing when some other person damges your property.

I think he has recieved some good advice. I dealt with something similar recently involving an idiot adult neighbor of mine.
 
Reply
Old Nov 21, 2021 | 06:28 PM
  #11  
Doug Savage's Avatar
Doug Savage
Thread Starter
|
Tuned
Joined: Apr 2021
Posts: 388
Likes: 231
Originally Posted by ejb69
I’m not seeing anything worth fixing, it’s a truck they get beat up.

Man.. I understand that thinking….. but 4k miles into a 93k vehicle. Hard to swallow. I kinda wanted to keep it dent free longer than that……

 
Reply
Old Nov 21, 2021 | 06:32 PM
  #12  
h20camper's Avatar
h20camper
Logistics Pro
5 Year Member
Liked
Loved
Community Favorite
Joined: Apr 2017
Posts: 3,924
Likes: 321
From: Lost in the Ozone....
Originally Posted by ejb69
I’m not seeing anything worth fixing,
Man, I do. The dent and getting the kid and/or kid’s family to do the right thing.
 
Reply
Old Nov 21, 2021 | 06:36 PM
  #13  
zeroo's Avatar
zeroo
Cargo Master
20 Year Member
Liked
Loved
Community Favorite
Joined: Mar 2005
Posts: 2,368
Likes: 620
I would not look into getting it fixed. BUT, that has no bearing on what you should do. You have all the reasonable expectations to get fixed by the responsible party. Sucks he hit it.
 
Reply
Old Nov 21, 2021 | 06:39 PM
  #14  
George C's Avatar
George C
Cargo Master
Joined: Oct 2005
Posts: 2,866
Likes: 515
From: WNY
Originally Posted by ejb69
I’m not seeing anything worth fixing, it’s a truck they get beat up.
OCD here.
​​​​​​​Truck to you, and truck to me is definitely two different things. That would be attended to first thing in the morning.
 
Reply
Old Nov 21, 2021 | 06:52 PM
  #15  
traveldawg's Avatar
traveldawg
More Turbo
20 Year Member
Shutterbug
Liked
Loved
Joined: Aug 2005
Posts: 689
Likes: 216
No. You aren't being a jerk for wanting to have it repaired. What would happen if the "shoe" were on the other foot?
 
Reply



All times are GMT -5. The time now is 04:30 PM.

story-0
This Hennessey Takes the Expedition Tremor's Off-Roading Capability to the Next Level

Slideshow: The VelociRaptor Expedition gains a lift, upgraded suspension, Brembo brakes, and trail-ready equipment while retaining the stock 440-horsepower EcoBoost V6.

By Verdad Gallardo | 2026-06-12 11:01:55


VIEW MORE
story-1
Top 10 Fords at 2026 Carlisle Ford Nationals

Slideshow: Top 10 Fords at 2026 Ford Nationals

By Joe Kucinski | 2026-06-09 11:10:08


VIEW MORE
story-2
3 Best / 3 Worst Parts of Modern Ford Ownership

Based on years of owning multiple modern Ford products.

By Brett Foote | 2026-06-09 10:53:36


VIEW MORE
story-3
10 Amazing Upgrades That Solve Common Ford Truck Owner Headaches

SPONSORED: From muddy boots to rain-soaked cargo, these upgrades address some of the most common frustrations Ford truck owners face every day.

By Pouria Savadkouei | 2026-06-08 18:50:34


VIEW MORE
story-4
Every 2026 Ford Engine Explained

Here's everything you need to know about every Ford engine available for the 2026 model year.

By Brett Foote | 2026-06-05 12:58:01


VIEW MORE
story-5
10 Ugly Ford Trucks That We Still Kinda Love

Slideshow: 10 ugly Ford trucks that we still kinda love.

By Joe Kucinski | 2026-06-03 09:51:16


VIEW MORE
story-6
10 Things Every Truck Owner NEEDS (2026 Edition)

Slideshow: the best gifts for dads & grads

By Michael S. Palmer | 2026-06-03 15:43:58


VIEW MORE
story-7
Rezvani's Latest Post-Apocalyptic Monster Is a Ford F-150 Raptor Underneath

Slideshow: Called the Fortress, the 850-horsepower pickup combines Raptor underpinnings with military-inspired features, survival equipment, and a starting price of $285,000.

By Verdad Gallardo | 2026-06-03 11:38:36


VIEW MORE
story-8
Top 10 Most Expensive Ford Trucks Ever Sold on Bring a Trailer

Slideshow: 10 most expensive Ford trucks ever sold on Bring a Trailer.

By Joe Kucinski | 2026-05-27 16:24:34


VIEW MORE
story-9
2027 Ford Super Duty Buyer's Guide (Every Model, Engine, & Package)

Here's everything that has changed for the latest model year.

By Brett Foote | 2026-05-27 16:17:28


VIEW MORE