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I ran into the same dilemma - didn't want to disable the BMS. Had toyed with unplugging the last connection near trailer brake module but didn't like this would disable trailer lights. I don't tow often and would forget it was unplugged.
Ended up picking up auto stop eliminator. Took 5 min to install and completely reversible.