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I am trying to plan and save - I don't change vehicles or houses very often- I buy stuff used and I am careful with my money (most of the time) -- I have a friend who is 62- started saving for retirement 4 years ago and puts 5% in his 401k-- buys a new car every 3 years (or more) and he says he can't retire because he has house payments- car payments and 2 kids living at home (in their mid 20's neither has a job) He talks about cable packages and pays $380 a month for cable-- and I think to myself hope he's happy now because he won't be later---- well its later-- he is becoming very forgetful-- and I am assuming its because of age-- but it is affecting his job performance. He might not have any income in a year if things keep going the way they are.
That's rough, I hate to see people not plan for the future. And I think back to something you said earlier. Everything is electronic, your bank account, your retirement, etc... so.. in a push of a keyboard button, everything you worked for your whole life could be gone.. vanished.. That scares the heck out of me. I hate to think that would happen to someone who tried so hard to prepare for the future, but things like that do happen. I only hope there is some kind of insurance on my 401K that protects it from such things. I would really like to put more into my 401K, but the wife thinks I am putting a lot in now.
I wish we were on the same page for that, because I would like to travel, spend, and enjoy retirement when I get to it. I don't want to struggle when I get to that point. I want retirement to be a time when I get to spoil myself with those things I didn't think I could afford when I was working. (I know, it may be a pipe dream, but still it drives me to try hard)
You are allowed $18,500 a year tax deferred. S0 we will see if I am going to bump mine up to 25% of what I am making this year-- If I get a larger pay raise.-- The return is better then any cd or savings account-- my 2 annuities are doing a little better- but really not all that good.. A friend of mine (Randy) is a big coin buff-- he has allot of silver-- non tax differed- just coins-- so if something happens and the economy goes 100% fubar- hell have something to trade --- I am banking on 2 things if that happens-- Got to have a product you can sell- and "smarts" beat "stuff" any day--- Alcohol is going to be my income if need be.- It has many uses and even just for drinking-- it is a valuable commodity. It is easily made and easy to trade. Corn is easy to store-- and it can be made from sugar, starch, and other carbohydrates by fermentation with yeast, and synthetically from ethylene or acetylene; used in beverages and as a solvent, vehicle, and preservative; medicinally, used externally and internally.- and most fruits- or potatoes, or even cane, sorghum or milo.
Any increases in wages I would put towards my pension and continue to live on what I was previous earning, only thing that changed was my savings, there was more in the piggy bank
Many believe the more you made meant the more you should spend, was my belief learn to live on less then when you needed it you didn't have to borrow..
one half of me things bailouts are the kind thing to do to keep people in their jobs-- but the other half of me says let the businesses fail and the competition would keep businesses trying to save money and keep them selves afloat. was
I helped the daughters out with “loans” a couple of times. I was repaid but also knew it wouldn’t destroy our relationship if not. Others I’ve helped with a gift. A loan is a good way to lose a friend.