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Old Apr 14, 2011 | 10:22 AM
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You can tell who the single guys are.
Bunch of internet tough guys when their wife isn't around, huh?
 
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Old Apr 14, 2011 | 10:31 AM
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Originally Posted by clux
Bunch of internet tough guys when their wife isn't around, huh?

Yes sir... As long as she doesn't hear me say it...It never happened!!
 
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Old Apr 14, 2011 | 10:35 AM
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Originally Posted by Eatonpcat
Yes sir... As long as she doesn't hear me say it...It never happened!!
And if she did hear ya say it. It is easy to convince her that she misunderstood ya. After all she IS a Woman.

Ya I'm divorced. But only three times so far
 
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Old Apr 14, 2011 | 10:43 AM
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Originally Posted by arctic y block
And if she did here ya say it. It is easy to convince her that she misunderstood ya. After all she IS a Woman.

Ya I'm divorced. But only three times so far

Doesn't sound like you're as convincing as you think...At least not the three times you admit!!!!
 
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Old Apr 14, 2011 | 10:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Eatonpcat
Doesn't sound like you're as convincing as you think...At least not the three times you admit!!!!
Hey! They all still have my last name

Am working #4 right now.
 
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Old Apr 14, 2011 | 10:54 AM
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Hey! They all still have my last name

Am working #4 right now.
Glutten for punishment...But hopefully she's the one!!
 
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Old Apr 14, 2011 | 10:59 AM
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Don't ya Know? They was all "The One"
 
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Old Apr 16, 2011 | 10:32 PM
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LOL! This came up prior to my first marriage...she was an adopted child, and VERY attached to her maiden name....I refused to hyphenate, but would have taken HER name in a heartbeat.

SHE chose to go the more traditional route, (and took MY name) but it DOES happen...more every day.
 
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Old Apr 19, 2011 | 09:00 AM
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Knew a guy who did this. Was marrying a woman who already had children, wanted one family name and didn't want the kids to have to change their name, or something like that. Not a big deal as far as I could see...
 
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Old Apr 19, 2011 | 09:21 AM
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Generally, unless adopted, the kids wouldn't be changing their names anyway. But, I can see the purpose of a common name.
 
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Old Apr 19, 2011 | 09:36 AM
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Originally Posted by kw5413
Generally, unless adopted, the kids wouldn't be changing their names anyway. But, I can see the purpose of a common name.
Yes, I think they wanted the kids to be adopted. I'm not sure if during the adoption the kids still were forced to change their name, but to the same name? Sounds like the type of nonsense some bureaucrat would insist had to be done..
 
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Old Apr 19, 2011 | 09:05 PM
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Why wasn't this taken care of in the 60s revolution?
I have often wondered where this tradition came from & why. I'm sure it has to do with the wife being submissive to her husband or something like that before women had equal rights.
Personally, I think it is a choice between husband & wife. My wife kept her maiden name for a year or more at my request. But it became a hassle for her so she changed it to my name.
What makes it harder for a man to change his name over a women changing hers.
I don't own my wife, she is free to do & be what she wants. I always love it when I hear some guy pissed of at other guy because he stole his GF or wife. Yet when you see them together the guy that stole her doesn't have her chained or handcuffed. She is going with this guy freely.
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Old Apr 20, 2011 | 03:45 AM
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I read that it's certainly not a religious thing and I'm not sure how the tradition came about. It may be different cultures do different things.

Originally Posted by fz1dave
Believe me, I almost did it. I can't stand my last name and the wife's would have been soooo much easier to deal with on a daily basis. Going from 9 letters to 5 and having a name that people could actually pronounce would have been sweet.
I am curious, what is your last name?
 
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