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Old May 18, 2009 | 06:40 AM
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Originally Posted by monsterbaby
Stu I didn't mean to get snarly, my point was just that I think the practice of subsidizing restaurant owners by tipping instead of them being required to actually pay at least min wage is not only wrong, but it takes away the entire premise of a gratuity. A gratuity SHOULD be a little extra as a way of saying thank you, it should NOT be part of your wage so the restaurant owner can pocket more money.
10 years ago I would have argued your point but today, I really can't. Going out to eat even at a decent chain such as Ruby Tuesday or Smokey Bones has become rediculous in cost. It usually costs me $100 for the four of us to go to one of those types of places.

I find myself looking for the independant restaurant these days.

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Old May 18, 2009 | 08:12 AM
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Originally Posted by BradyCouchman
what you dont seem to get is that the minimum to not get fired would be great customer service.
You've clearly never worked for anyone, or you just don't pay attention to the other workers at whatever jobs you've held. It is (unfortunately) the way it is in the working world. "It's not my job" is tossed out whenever someone is asked to do anythig that is not clearly defined in their job description. You say you worked at In n Out Burgers (incredible burger joint, BTW). Surely there were some employees that did not go the extra mile but were efficient enough to keep their job. Surely the owners of the chain weren't expecting everyone to be bubbly all the time and they have to expect that some will strive for excellence while others will strive to not get fired.
not much more? that could mean anything.
I have never waited tables, but I know that I would be great at it, because I would be hustling from table to table making their dining experience worth the money they are spending. Is it the waiters job to wait on the customer hand and foot? Or does his job description say "take customer water," "Deliver food," "go back in 2 minutes, or just after customer takes a bite and ask if everything is ok." "Offer dessert." "Take check." Or does a waiter's job description say "wait on customer hand and foot, fullfill their every need and be there at the exact moment they need something?" They would have to have a waiter for every table and your bill would be astronomical. Realistically, any job is going to have those that do the bare minimum to keep their job, why would waiting tables be any different?
and i can promise you that those girls are not working for tips. it is a pre decided amount, do they get tips i would think but i know they make enough with out tips. many hair style/cut places is the same way you have to pay for rent of the chair.
Well, I was simply using the call girls as an example to illustrate the $2.50/ hr you brought up. It was a silly 'aside' from the actual discussion, but I think we all get the point of it. The barbers/stylists was a better example of a worker that makes under the minimum wage.
 
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Old May 18, 2009 | 11:46 AM
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You've clearly never worked for anyone, or you just don't pay attention to the other workers at whatever jobs you've held. It is (unfortunately) the way it is in the working world. "It's not my job" is tossed out whenever someone is asked to do anythig that is not clearly defined in their job description. You say you worked at In n Out Burgers (incredible burger joint, BTW). Surely there were some employees that did not go the extra mile but were efficient enough to keep their job. Surely the owners of the chain weren't expecting everyone to be bubbly all the time and they have to expect that some will strive for excellence while others will strive to not get fired
i can tell form this post that you never worked there or eat there much. because if you did you would notice that when the person who is taking orders has none he/she goes and hands out food or goes and get orders from the cooks and takes them to the frie station(just an example of the fact that it doesnt matter what your doing that day your job is to give good customer service no matter what it takes). i have gone into an interview and they asked where i worked before i said In N Out and they hired me on the spot after the question because In N Out is so well known for creating employees with such good work ethic and great customer service. but In N Out is not the rule it is the exception to the rule, but i think they got it right

yes at the jobs i have had there have been people who just wanted to not get fired and if i was the boss i would have fired them.
 
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Old May 18, 2009 | 12:36 PM
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If we are talking just pizza delivery, i may, or may not tip the driver.

Really why tip someone for doing their job?

But if they are really fast on the delivery, neatly dressed, polite, and friendly, they usually get 2 or 3 bucks on tip.

If at a restaurant, and my food was fast, good, and the server did his/her job very well, I tip about 20%....If they were not good, or the food just okay, or the attitude of the server was not good, I tip zero.

I don't expect tips for doing my job, nor does my wife, or my friends, so why should I really feel obligated to tip others for doing their job.
 
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Old May 18, 2009 | 12:38 PM
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Originally Posted by BradyCouchman
but In N Out is not the rule it is the exception to the rule, but i think they got it right

yes at the jobs i have had there have been people who just wanted to not get fired and if i was the boss i would have fired them.
Thank you for conceding my point. I agree with you that a good manager does more than manage, they lead.
 
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Old May 18, 2009 | 12:40 PM
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also in Europe tipping is very less comon, so do you think that all of Europe has bad service at resturants? yeah your going to get the bad ones here and there but its the same way here.
 
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Old May 18, 2009 | 12:46 PM
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Oh and for places that just decide to add on a TIP charge to your bill.
At least where I live, you can simply refuse to pay it.
It is against the law to add charges to a bill that are not already in the original price, except for governemnt collected taxes.
I actually was out with a group of guys a few summers ago, on a motorbike ride.
We stopped to eat, and the service sucked.....The B...ch had the audacity to add a 20% tip to our bill, so we sat and took the tip back off, and paid just for our food and walked out.
She came to the parking lot to argue with us....About 5 of us were carrying our business cards, and we handed them to her.
Told her here is our cards to have the cops contact us if we broke the law.
Never did get that phone call from the police.....Oh ya, one of the gals riding with us that handed her a business card was a lawyer.
 
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Old May 18, 2009 | 01:08 PM
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Originally Posted by BradyCouchman
also in Europe tipping is very less comon, so do you think that all of Europe has bad service at resturants? yeah your going to get the bad ones here and there but its the same way here.
Yes, over all, tipping is a bit less common in Europe...but Europe is not America and comparing the two is in many ways like comparing apples to oranges. Tipping in restaurants is pretty common, though there it's more appreciated than expected as it is here and then it's usually more on the order of 10% at the most. And in many places in Europe you walk into the men's room and there's an attendant in there holding his hand out for a tip, sometimes before and sometime after you go, and you are expected to pay him. I'm not sure what for, it's not like he comes over and holds it for me or anything... I suppose it's his job to keep the room clean and tidy, but I've been in some that were nasty but still had the attendant standing there with his hand out...
 
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Old May 18, 2009 | 01:13 PM
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yeah i have never been just what others tell me. the nasty ones its probly just some guy off the street hanging out in the bathroom
 
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Old May 18, 2009 | 03:51 PM
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Thank God it's his hand and not a gun, if it was a gun I would'nt be able to go!!!
 
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Old May 18, 2009 | 06:38 PM
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My best day was $100 in 4 hours, in 1991. Busted my *** I did.
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Old May 18, 2009 | 07:08 PM
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Originally Posted by monsterbaby
Where I worked taking that discount would get you suspended without pay first offense and could end up getting you fired. We were required to pay for anything we got while on duty and pay full price, anything else was considered a form of bribery.
As it should be.
 
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Old May 18, 2009 | 09:08 PM
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related question...

do you guys tip cab drivers? how about the guy at a hotel who brings your bags to your room?

I once told a cab driver he'd get a 10 dollar tip if I made my train, We had a few cuty miles to go in about 10 minutes, Scariest ride of my life, drove on the sidewalk, through redlights, Made my train
 
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Old May 18, 2009 | 09:34 PM
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Never ridden in a cab...
 
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Old May 18, 2009 | 10:09 PM
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Originally Posted by BradyCouchman
many places give big discounts to cops, at In N Out it is 50%.
The burger joints, etc. routinely offer discounts which I routinely refuse. It's called a gratuity and by our code of ethics, cannot be received or used by any officer. Not saying it doesn't happen, just saying that I refuse any and all discounts.

Originally Posted by monsterbaby
Where I worked taking that discount would get you suspended without pay first offense and could end up getting you fired. We were required to pay for anything we got while on duty and pay full price, anything else was considered a form of bribery.
Same here, if it's caught. I can't remember the exact case and frankly, I'm too tired to look it up now, but there was a ranking officer with a department that was fired over demanding free coffee at a Starbuck's IIRC.
 
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