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BAH!
Got this really nice, sweet and cute gal I talk to alot, (and as a plus, she normally initiates the convo, sees me somewehre and comes to me to start talking)
Problem is, she is graduatin this quarter and goin out of state for med school. So she is unwilling to start a relationship since she is leaving, and granted, I would be unwilling ot start one with someone who is leaving that soon.
Was talkin with her today for a few hours, just the number of things I like about her are amazing.
Into guns, carries a .45
Smart as hell, hell she got into med school no problem and near aced her MCAT
Catholic (like me, always a plus)
One of those few really good girls left, especially after the corruption that years of college normally does to a person
Likes to hunt and fish
From near the same area that I am originally, but getting out of the state
Selfless as can be.
Oh, did I mention she was cute? :O
What really sucks is that I have known her for three and a half years now, but I was with someone for over 3 of em, who imho, is nowhere near the woman that this gal will be, or is.
Oh I don't intend to not keep in touch. Just...meh... :/ If me and the ex not getting back together three years ago would have given me a chance at datin this gal, I believe I may have been willing to pass on the last 3 years with my ex for that chance.
I think you should introduce her to FTE & in particular, this thread. She might just move back after Med school & you might just go visit her a few times while she is in school. She sounds like a keeper to me.
Yeah, if we only knew then what we know now.....but on the other hand, you don't have to wonder how things with your ex would've turned out if you hadn't gotten back together (maybe thinking you'd missed something with her), that's behind you now and you're (hopefully) the wiser for it, ready for new things!
you should try and at least try to keep in touch with her, you knew know maybe things will work out for the two of yous. even if it is just to be friends or maybe something more. Have you mentioned to her on ow you feel? Maybe that would be a plus. you never know maybe things will work for the best. but never give up on her.
my opinion but if she doesn't want anything to do wtih you now, she never will.
"unwilling to start a relationship" because she is going to med school? one heck of an excuse, at least she was nice and didn't tell you flat out she is not interested.
You know Jimmy I liked the line about the corruption college does to a person. Man that is true. I am married to a wonderful woman who I kept away from the bad news of some college things. I have seen alot of good people really "change" for the worst. Some also for the better, but mostly the girls I knew kinda went alittle crazy, you know first year away from the folks, if they stay on campus. I got my crazyness out of my system in highschool and started college a few years late so I was more about getting good grades and getting out. My wife was like that too. I saved her!! Haha.
Man you know it might work out for the best. Stay intouch and hey if you do it might show her your commented and willing to wait. That means alot to women. If you trust her and appreciate her let her do what her dream is and then there will be nothing but years ahead for you and her. You never know man. If she is the one keep her in your mind and it will work out fine.