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2 places to look off the top of my head. Look on the backside of the steering column under the dash near the floor for a lever and a switch. The other place to look would be on the transmission next to the shift linkage.
Have someone stand behind you at a same distance to see if the lights come on at all while shifting through all the gears. It might simply need to be adjusted to get it to come on at the right time.