I only went out with the girl for about a month, She was WAY to "clingy". But a nice girl. Went to the family's house, they were nice hospitable people, very caring.we were watching a movie, and she wanted to lay on me and I was VERY tired so I scooted away from her. Then it was over I was a jerk and should apologize- FOR WHAT? Wanting breathing room. So she left to her room I figured that she'd went to bed so I streched out on the couch and she came back out with a blanket and the stare of death, she layed infront of the TV. After the movie I left, the next day after work I got 11 calls and 6 text messages in an hour and a half. Her step dad called me and left the voice mail saying hey, are you outa bed yet and are you coming over for the new years party. It was a very serious tone and not the joking tone I usually hear from him. That is how I knew that it had spread over to them. I liked them, I hated to leave like that on such shaky terms.
My stepmom told her dAD on x-mas day that When I'm over there that everything is out of place, and I never fit in with them. I HEARD her say that "OUCH" i grabbed my things and left dad's house. Then I get this call from my dad when he's at work, She paged him, so I get this call and he is leaving a voicemail like my stepmom told him I was suicidal. PLEASE! what a joke. 12 days sense I talked to tim, usually every 2 days.

OH and my grandma's health is declining rapidly
I know others deal with things of this sort but how?????
I feel better after i talk about it But I feel like i'm running out of people to talk to.Well there will always be someone hear on FTE that will respond

 

sounds like her parents should go out with yours....

 

Tell her your gay............that should send her on her way,,Then you can find another woman.lol

 

read my signature. I think that says it all!



Jim

 

she's gone now. but it disrupted mine and her parents relationship. I doubt i'll hear from her/them again. It is wierd s buddy told me last night that in a girlfriends relationship, i'm after the value of the family, she is just a bonus. I guess because i never had a real family,so that is why I don't want to destroy the repore with the family. It sounds wierd but he brought it up and knows a guy with them same problem

 

One thing, alway be honest and to the point with your girlfriend.
One other thing that is failed to mention is communication, yes you're tired but you should of told her. You might want to consider of picking up the phone and calling her, and then this should straighten things out with her parents too . Last chance to keep it at friends.

Maybe, you'll be ever so lucky to have some female respond to this one.

 

Maybe not though. Women love gay men as best friends...


Sounds to me like you are pulling people in to your confused world. Drama breeds drama. It reads like you are at a point in your life to where you think you must have a girlfriend, but deep down you need to get your life sorted out first. ...

You are young, work on being happy with yourself first. Then, you will be better equipped to let someone else in to your life and have them share your happiness as a couple. good luck. jmo

 

Listen to this guy ^^^^^ and in the meantime I wouldn't worry too much about that girl. Sounds like a nutjob, and you do not want one of those in your life. I think everyone has to experience it in order to learn that lesson though.

 

Shall I revive the original 2 threads

 

There's only two? There's a new thread on some nutty girl that dumps her nice boyfriend at least once a month.

 

i literally laughed out loud when i read this. good job dude

 

Just noticed your signature, is this referring to your last girlfriend, If she the cheating type, If she wants to talk, just tell her your not into the cheating type of women, and broken hearts and dreams.

Go visit your Grandma, she needs you more. Even if you visit for half an hour.

 

This girl was a "stay at home" hidden from the outside world type girl.

She has obviously gone into "Infactuation Mode" with Dustin since she never seem to have any relationship.

Her Mother has put Dustin and her together to "Get her socializing"

It's the same as spoiling someone with gifts.

The more they get......the more they want.

Communication is the key.


If Dustin Stated: "I don't like Clingy" people....it would have tipped her off.


One needs ALL the exact information to judge and advise the situation.