have a hard time?....
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have a hard time?....
ever have a hard time approaching certain women?
im a very self confident guy... and can strike up a conversation with almost any chick... but; this one girl at the gym just took forever for me to approach. ive taken notice of details... she wears a shirt alot from the neighbooring highschool. ok... maybe shes a senior ( 18 ) i can handle that.
last night im about to leave, and so is she. so i walk up to her, ask her name... then threw in the punch line "do you go to SSP high school" "yeah" she said... and it was on... talked her all the way to her car
next time... ill dig deeper, find out how old she is, if she has a boyfriend, and the time after that ill see if i cant take her out sometime. shes got the greatest body... very pretty... none of my gym buddies have the nerve to even approach her. but me.. i figured i had nothing to lose by doing so.
anyways- ever known someone you had to work the courage up to talk to?
im a very self confident guy... and can strike up a conversation with almost any chick... but; this one girl at the gym just took forever for me to approach. ive taken notice of details... she wears a shirt alot from the neighbooring highschool. ok... maybe shes a senior ( 18 ) i can handle that.
last night im about to leave, and so is she. so i walk up to her, ask her name... then threw in the punch line "do you go to SSP high school" "yeah" she said... and it was on... talked her all the way to her car
next time... ill dig deeper, find out how old she is, if she has a boyfriend, and the time after that ill see if i cant take her out sometime. shes got the greatest body... very pretty... none of my gym buddies have the nerve to even approach her. but me.. i figured i had nothing to lose by doing so.
anyways- ever known someone you had to work the courage up to talk to?
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The great and dreaded age thing. I never ran into that issue as I met my wife when I was 17 and she was 18 at the time, the rest of that is history.
My brother on the other hand is now dating a girl that he wouldn't even look at in highschool. He had just turned 19 and the girl was still 16 (2.5 years difference). At the time he wouldn't even consider it (to much hassle). He ran into her about a month ago and now with him being 21 and she actually just turned 19 and is into her second year of University he figured why not.
My brother on the other hand is now dating a girl that he wouldn't even look at in highschool. He had just turned 19 and the girl was still 16 (2.5 years difference). At the time he wouldn't even consider it (to much hassle). He ran into her about a month ago and now with him being 21 and she actually just turned 19 and is into her second year of University he figured why not.
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Originally Posted by BuiltToughF250
anyways- ever known someone you had to work the courage up to talk to?
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Looking back there are a lot of women I wish I would have approached, always figured they wouldn't want anything to do with a guy like me. Now I look at the guys they married and just shake my head. You are right, "What do you have to lose?". Absolutely nothing! You only get one go around on this ride we call life, so make sure you get everything you can out of it.
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I have a hard time approaching chicks. I have a very low self confidence so therefore its hard for me to go up to chicks and start talking. If im with some friends then i can talk to some of them all night long, but if im just by myself its very hard to go up to any girl and start talking. I think being 23 and going bald has A LOT to do with my self confidence.
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Originally Posted by rob_nc
Now I know why you are having trouble with your bench. You're either too busy showing off or you've lost concentration.
the first time i benched 300x4 was cause Charrise was there, another pretty attractive blonde that goes to the gym. it blew her mind. she said i was crazy to do that. naturally... i acted like it was nothing lol. of course i show off. and yeah... i can get distracted easily
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