Guys, my 2008 FX4 won't disengage from park without depressing the manual release (white button). All I need to know is the part number for that solenoid. None of my local parts stores have a clue and I don't trust my local stealerships.
I just disabled mine by putting a little piece of wood in there so it was always in the down position. Fixed. We drove for years without this brake/shift lock function on our vehicles. anyway, thats how I fixed mine. I changed the brake switch too, it was only like 40 bucks.