My issue started hard shifting when my Tranny filter fell then it got to the point Of stalling when In reverse and then eventually drive

 

You also need to address having the wrong ignition module....

 

i am , im looking in to it, is the ignition module the gray one and the black one, have diffrent names or are they just gray and black module?

 

The Ford Ignition Module is referred to as Ignition Control Module (ICM) or Thick Film Ignition module (TFI). They come in two flavors, Push Start (gray in color) or Computer Controlled Dwell (CCD). All trucks starting in 1994 have black (CCD) style Ignition Control Modules.

As I noted before, many part manuals (including Ford) are wrong. Trust me, we go through this chinese fire drill every week here.....

Some good reading here: http://www.myo-p.com/Ford-EEC/EEC%20..._or_black.html

 

ok cool thanks alot rla2005 I appreciate your help, ok so the more i look in to the turning off when i put it in drive, the worse it gets lol, some guy online with his f 150 had to pretty much brake his whole engine down and re do everything, im gonna change the cap, and change the transmission filter, and if it still keeps happening im gonna take it to the mechanic as soon as i have some cash to do so, damm these cars, no wonder it was 800 bucks lol............