Married guys....
Hotshot
Joined: Oct 2007
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From: Manhattan Kansas
Thats kind of like my brother's soon to be X, brought her new live in boyfriend out to the farm to help haul furniture, then she had the nerve to invite him into the house to show him where she used to live, and to distract my brother while she grabbed more stuff that wasn't hers to walk out with.
Post Fiend
Joined: Sep 2004
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From: Pine Level NC
Wow GS,
we are still in the same house but only because neither one of us has the money to get a lawyer or anything else but I have gotten to the point now thanks to someone else that most the stuff she does doesn't bother me but I will honestly you I do not know what my actions would be if I caught him in the house regardless of what was going on.
Its still my house too which is the other reason I have not left, I am not leaving til something is on paper and I know he has been here at least once.
we are still in the same house but only because neither one of us has the money to get a lawyer or anything else but I have gotten to the point now thanks to someone else that most the stuff she does doesn't bother me but I will honestly you I do not know what my actions would be if I caught him in the house regardless of what was going on.
Its still my house too which is the other reason I have not left, I am not leaving til something is on paper and I know he has been here at least once.
Fleet Owner
Joined: Oct 2004
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From: Newton America :-P
Dave, He might not know the whole situation, She might have not told him the whole truth (I know I know a woman that might not tell the whole truth -- might be the first time in history) So don't be too quick to blame him - Not saying he doesn't desreve blame - just make sure you have ALL the facts before you shoot him or something.
I actually walked into a situation where a girl I was dating was actually still married and her hubby was out of town allot. But I didn't know - Luckily it never got to the Horizontal Mombo - but it was close.
I actually walked into a situation where a girl I was dating was actually still married and her hubby was out of town allot. But I didn't know - Luckily it never got to the Horizontal Mombo - but it was close.
Post Fiend
Joined: Aug 2008
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From: Greenville SC
Hello Kansas, I stumbled on this site" Married Guy's "and since I am married I thought I would stop. After reading thru the thread I felt like saying something you all already know, there is someone out there for you. It's good that some of you have tried more than once and willing to try again. That old saying" you can't live with them and you can't live without them" has a lot of truth to it, it is hard for two people to change and live under one roof in harmony and still be two different people.
Hotshot
Joined: Mar 2001
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From: Manhattan, KS
The old saying is women get married and he will change, and men get married and she will stay the same. Doesn't seem to work that way. I always told my daughters when they were dating and then getting serious about guys that what they saw was what they got and if they thought they would significantly change or "improve" the guy they were in for a long row.
Hotshot
Joined: Oct 2007
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From: Manhattan Kansas
It takes a whole lot of "Atta Boys" to wipe out one "Awe Crap!"
Usually about a dozen long stem roses helps to get you back on a level playing field, but sometimes it takes a whole lot more.
Usually about a dozen long stem roses helps to get you back on a level playing field, but sometimes it takes a whole lot more.
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Joined: Dec 2008
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From: Abilene, KS
You couldn't have hit it more on the head than that. A while back (Appx. 4 years) I broke up with my my wife (high school times mind you 
) after dating her for 4 months because that stupid wh*** that I had dated for a couple years before my wife got under my skin and filled my head full of false and bad thoughts about my wife. To say the least, I made the biggest mistake possible in a relationship, with my ex 
It took years, but I think that my wife has finally forgave me as much as she is going to. I think that we both agreed that it was a stupid high school mistake.
I consider myself pretty lucky.......
) after dating her for 4 months because that stupid wh*** that I had dated for a couple years before my wife got under my skin and filled my head full of false and bad thoughts about my wife. To say the least, I made the biggest mistake possible in a relationship, with my ex It took years, but I think that my wife has finally forgave me as much as she is going to. I think that we both agreed that it was a stupid high school mistake.
I consider myself pretty lucky.......
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