OT... Dad's gone
Post Fiend
Joined: Feb 2006
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From: Middle Tennessee
My condolences Pete.
..and to you too Jon. I don't know what is worse but we went through this with my MIL the last 4 years. What a horrible disease. My FIL died of cancer 18 years ago.
My father on the other hand had a heart attack 5 years ago and it was over. I somehow think I was better off with that. Didn't get to say goodbye, but it was quick. I guess I am trying to say that watching anyone, especially a loved one die is a heart breaker.
So my thoughts go out to Pete, his family, and all of you that have to endure this. I want to go out like my dad.
My father on the other hand had a heart attack 5 years ago and it was over. I somehow think I was better off with that. Didn't get to say goodbye, but it was quick. I guess I am trying to say that watching anyone, especially a loved one die is a heart breaker.
So my thoughts go out to Pete, his family, and all of you that have to endure this. I want to go out like my dad.
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Hotshot
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From: North of Greenville
Wow! I am sincerely grateful. Hearing some of your experiences, albeit in a very brief synopsis, tugs at my heart. I know for a fact that we have been so fortunate compared to many others in that Dad's battle with cancer was relatively short at just 5 months from his diagnosis. I have the deepest respect and admiration for anyone who is a "primary caregiver" to someone who is suffering from terminal illness. It is not an easy task.
I also have a tremendous respect and admiration for those who have dedicated themselves as nurses, etc. for those terminal patients under hospice care (or anything similar)... the ones I have met over the past several months do what they do out of what seems to be a true love and compassion for those who are dying - AND their families.
And like I said earlier, too, the outpouring of warmth and heartfelt condolences from all of you, my friends, here in FTE... there is great comfort there, and I am truly priveleged to even casually know any of you.
Thank you.
I also have a tremendous respect and admiration for those who have dedicated themselves as nurses, etc. for those terminal patients under hospice care (or anything similar)... the ones I have met over the past several months do what they do out of what seems to be a true love and compassion for those who are dying - AND their families.
And like I said earlier, too, the outpouring of warmth and heartfelt condolences from all of you, my friends, here in FTE... there is great comfort there, and I am truly priveleged to even casually know any of you.
Thank you.
Smokin
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Pete, I'm sorry to hear about your dad. You have my condolences.
As I am sure you know, I lost my dad to cancer too...as did quite a few other members here on the 7.3 board.
Like has been said more than a few times, the toughest thing in life is to see someone you love in pain. He is definitely in a better place now.
Right now he is no doubt fishing, or boating, or out doing something he loved.
As I am sure you know, I lost my dad to cancer too...as did quite a few other members here on the 7.3 board.
Like has been said more than a few times, the toughest thing in life is to see someone you love in pain. He is definitely in a better place now.
Right now he is no doubt fishing, or boating, or out doing something he loved.
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Brett Foote
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From: Damon (South East Texas)
My condolences to you, Pete. I understand the feeling of loss. My mother passed away just before Christmas last year. She died of heart failure and her health dimished rapidly the last few weeks. I'm glad I got to spend some time with her before she passed. Loss of a family member is something you never really get over. Their memories live on forever in your heart and mind. You find peace in knowing they are in a better place.
Post Fiend
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From: Millbrook Alabama
Pete, In the past few weeks I have had your number on my phone numerous times to call and check on you and your dad, but alas, something always came up, and I didnt make the call. For this I am sorry. Sometimes just having someone to bounce things off of can help alot.
I could tell at our last lunch that ya'll had made great strides in "past misunderstandings" dept. For that I am greatful.
Your father lead a full life, and raised a great son. I am sure he is looking down upon you and your family and beaming with pride.
As always y'all are in our prayers, and if I can do ANYTHING for you just let me know.
I could tell at our last lunch that ya'll had made great strides in "past misunderstandings" dept. For that I am greatful.
Your father lead a full life, and raised a great son. I am sure he is looking down upon you and your family and beaming with pride.
As always y'all are in our prayers, and if I can do ANYTHING for you just let me know.
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From: Columbia, MO
Pete, I'm sorry to hear of your loss. My father left me due to cancer as well, in about the same time frame from diagnoses to passing as yours. It's not easy, but as others have said, I found comfort knowing he's in a better place and that God needed him up there. My prayers go out to you and your family. May your father rest in peace.
Hotshot
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From: La La Land
Pete,
It's so much easier on both sides if you left nothing unsaid. Sure, there will still be regrets, but it had to be easier on your dad too, knowing there was understanding and peace between you both.
Sleep well tonight, knowing that your children's character is a reflection of those ideals you were taught by your dad. You have much of which to be proud of them, and as such, proud of him. Your children are, in some ways, cast from his mold.
You'll eventually see him again while looking in the mirror some morning, maybe years from now. Someday, you may recognize him in your son's face.
It's supposed to be that way.
Pop
It's so much easier on both sides if you left nothing unsaid. Sure, there will still be regrets, but it had to be easier on your dad too, knowing there was understanding and peace between you both.
Sleep well tonight, knowing that your children's character is a reflection of those ideals you were taught by your dad. You have much of which to be proud of them, and as such, proud of him. Your children are, in some ways, cast from his mold.
You'll eventually see him again while looking in the mirror some morning, maybe years from now. Someday, you may recognize him in your son's face.
It's supposed to be that way.
Pop
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Always a good reminder when things like this happen...
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God Bless