Moderating & Posting Comments
It amazes me that I see many of the gang on other sites and spin-off sites and they have a totally different attitude. Only thing I can figure is that there are bigger dogs on the other sites whereas here they were the big dog.
Anyway, that is my opinion.
I agree 100%.
All big and bad here talkin smack. I went to some other sites and tracked a couple of them down and they are like meek little sheep.
It amazes me that I see many of the gang on other sites and spin-off sites and they have a totally different attitude. Only thing I can figure is that there are bigger dogs on the other sites whereas here they were the big dog.
Anyway, that is my opinion.
I admit I had a few bad posts and took part in the ganging up rarely when someone flat out refused to listen or take reasonable advice, but most of the time I did my best to answer the question best I could. Its hard to keep a temper when you take the time to help someone and they refuse to listen at all though.
As far as the other sites, if you're talking about N.W.U. I don't see what you're talking about?? I'd like to see an example of what you're getting at.
BTW, I took all these posts out of the "Trust Fund" thread. That thread needs to run on its own.
This one is a great place for ya all to ask me whatever you want to know about how I moderate, tell me if I'm doing something wrong, vent about past moderation issues, etc.
I'll try to answer what I can as long as you guys realize that I am NEVER wrong, ask my hubby.

As i KNOW i didnt start this thread... Thanks for clearing that up though....
Go look at the offroad forum on N.W.U. and posts by minions that nolonger post on FTE. Gee, they give advice without calling people morons. Gee, what a concept. Thats what I'm talking about.
As for people not following good advice given, there is not a thing I or anyone else can do to make them. Yeah, it is fustrating but you can't save some people from themselves and that is just a part of life. Going on the attack is never going to make someone change their mind. Posting up good, logical and proven info and results might, and I add might because some people know it all whether they do or not.
As for you personally, I've never seen you post personal attacks. I've seen you debate in some of those attack threads but not lower yourself to making it personal.
Either way, I'll still drop some info here when I have it to give, but most of the friends I had on here have moved onto other sites and that's what really made this site fun.
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And if FTE only had a handfull of users, we probably wouldn't get the dumb or already hashed out questions as we do now. When there's well over 1000 registered users on each and every day, you're going to get those questions and more of those types of people that ask but don't take advice.
There's many days that I'm on N.W.U reading all by myself.
The size of FTE has its problems but it also has its benefits. If it weren't for FTE, most of you wouldn't have formed the friendships you have with people from all over the country and some even in your own states..
I also am a registered and active member on n.w.u. i know most of the people on there, and i have actually lived in there "area" For quite awhile... With plans on moving back soon.
I have local lubbock forums that i frequnent too...
Those guys have no real individualism there since every one acts they way they did.
You share more than just one persons opinion. That " little fish in a big pond" theory could not be more true.
That group only had a select few that were actually knowledgable, and the rest were simple followers that felt some sort of satisfaction for being included in what they felt to be a reputable group.
Many simply provided tech that was from another site and only repeated what they had read, and not actually first hand experience.
Many blasted anyone that had BFG A/T tires (and still do) but most of them ran the same tire that they so criticized in so many threads.
The same is true for anything related to a TTB front axle, or even a D44 for that matter. Heak when it ever came time to show all of the cards, there were only a small, I mean very small group that had real equipment, and the rest just criticized, and followed along because that is what the cool thing to do at the time.
Who in there right mind would want to willingly be a server or subordinate?
Grant it we all answer to someone, but in this case, it is out of the question.
Besides, my original understanding of the term 'minion' was, a small ordinance (cannon) that utilized small caliber projectiles.
Thats is basically small *****! Pun intended.
Almost seems fitting.
For the most part there was more hyprocacy than real knowledge.
Just because the entire pack of wolves had lunch did not mean that any individual wolf was a great hunter. Saftey in numbers was the only reason that group felt justified in anything that they did.
For the most part, the ones with the real knowledge stayed quiet, and let the others fade away. Those good folks are still here. While some may be affiliated with the old group, and still buddies, this forum is not necesarilly any worse off without them. Still plenty of great knowledge here.
Before that group, plenty of people survived, and learned.
Thats what this forum should be about. Learning. We learn from others that have actual knowledge, and not something that they read from another site, and try to make it gospel. On many occasions some of us share a PM, and share something that was learned out on the trail, over the weekend. This is from seasoned wheelers that are willing to continue to learn, and share.
Too many newbs were run off because they were made to feel small, and that was not fair.
For the most part, the quiet guys / girls that have pretty nice rides, have little to say, but soooo much to share, and when it comes down to it, they share very valuable information when they do. The folks with so much to say are the ones without equipment, and have nothing more than desire and dreams of what they want to build.
Interesting to me after reading many posts, that for a while the pot could call the kettle black, but when the kettle spoke up, the pot was offended.
Perhaps the OffRoad forum can once again become what it once was.
How about we move beyond the minion thing now.

This thread will remain because I really do want you guys to post up if you have any issues or comments about the way I or anyone else that moderates this forum as we move forward.








