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You better hope my wife, the special Ed Teacher in a public school, doesn't read that post Ken. She'll fly down there and smack you alongside the head with a dictionary.
Seriously though- that post was insulting and demeaning to everyone in the Education field.
Slight edit from my response to Ken. I learned some stuff from public schools, it just seems that nowadays, the almighty altar of political correctness (i.e....not treating criminals who also happen to be in High School like they should be treated....like criminals)....and this tends to have a detrimental effect on teachers who DO want to teach...and to the students who DO want to learn. To be fair, we should probably separate large urban school districts from the more rural or suburban ones (I did put an "attaboy" plug in for the rural counties and states, didn't I?). I just (as a police officer) see too much crap in the urban systems and too much crap coming from the school boards in charge of them........
We had outstanding teachers in my High School, but the political correctness aspect of it was missing back then.
Kind of ....but I don't care...It's my thread (haha)
What rankled me on the previous post/rant is that I look at schools (and School Districts) the same way I look at used cars and trucks: Some are really outstanding, some are real stinkers, most fall in between the two. A big price tag, however, is no guarantee of the desired results.
That being said, it's unfair (and highly inaccurate) to paint all schools or districts with the same brush. Those that do generally don't participate in the system and the decision-making process. Which makes them part of the problem- not part of the solution.
You'll find the most successful districts have an active parent body involved in the decision-making process. It's participation that makes the system work, and lack of it that causes it to fail. That and 98 cents will buy you a coffee at Starbucks.
thet should teach finacial responsibility in schools, starting in grade school, i should they already do, its called math. then as they grow older start teaching them more about finances and such, but for some reason schools feel teaching shakespeare 100 times over is better than teaching money matters.
as far as the off topic of teachers, it depends on the school and the individual, the high school i went to were full of idiots, maybe just 3 or 4 teachers were good, the rest were there to collect paychecks. but i know there are schools that are just the opposite also with people never having nothing but compliments for the teachers. even in the Navy, the schools there had the ones who liked to teach, and the ones that were there for their "slack" shore duty.
i have only known one teacher personnally, she garduated from school with a psychology degree and got hired to be a high school world history teacher.....now, i don't know the system good and all, but i can say this woman didn't know anything about world history, not alone enough to teach at a high school level, but they hired her because she has a degree!
Ok, ill give some input from the younger audience (21).
The problem with the kids my age (and myself) is that we are fairly dumb. Me for example, im pretty sure i know how to get rich, but i dont do it cause im lazy and i want to buy parts for my car/truck i want to buy some video games, and i want to buy beer. I want to take road trips to concerts, and spend that extra $70 so that i can hang out with jason bonam. My buddy came with me a few weeks ago as i went to buy computer parts at best buy. He just happened to see a samsung flatscreen that was pretty sweet so he bought it on the spot. $1200. Hes not rich, nor is his parents. Obviously most of my friends arnt this bad, but its a great example. Typically most of our money is spent on small things, like dvds or something. I wont bring in the drug variable too much cause thats obviously controversial, but if your an officer then you know probably better than i do that 90% of kids spend a hell of a lot of money on it.
Now how does the problem get solved? We get our asses out of the house and realize that its a pain being broke all the time. Then we think, where did the money go. Then you research where it went, where it shouldve went, and so the learning begins. The reason why most kids wont be able to be educated on it is simple. They just dont care. And just like when we hear things we dont want to hear, it goes right out the other ear. There are very few kids that will acknowledge they arnt as smart as they thought they were with money, and decide to learn about it.
As you said you dont have to make a lot of money to be rich, but rather know what to do with the money you make. Most millionaires today or "wealthy people" are your neighbors and typically the average person. They know how to budget their money and have the self controll to not buy crap they dont need (impulse buying partially). There are people out there that can go out and buy what the want and it wont affect them, but there arnt as many as youd think.
And so far as reading material, im reading "The Millionaire Mind" and "The Everything Investing Book."
Excellent post, and I was definitely wanting to hear from the younger members of FTE.....you guys (and gals) are the ones that this thread was all about.....all of us old farts already made our decisions (haha). You just covered, in your 1st paragraph, what the mindset is between generations. At the age that you should really lay the foundation for your future, it's all about the immediate payoff and getting "stuff"...and I was the same way. By the time you have your epiphany, 10 or 20 or 30 years have passed, and now you're scrambling.
But I'm definitely not encouraging anyone to be a stick-in-the-mud.....What the heck, you might be dead tomorrow and had never had any fun...BUT....Maybe set aside certain percentages to savings & investing...do it automatically (a la "David Bach")....then spend the rest on "stuff" (cars, DVDs, etc.)......(making sure the bills are paid, of course...haha) The key is, when you have it allocated before you have a chance to spend it, YOU'LL NEVER MISS IT!....and your personal wealth will just grow and grow........
Don't give up on your friends either......Try to teach them, anyway.....
Steve
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I agree, Polarbear, and further, I think that if anyone but the Webmaster had posted it, there would have been trouble.
I received a damn good education from a public school system, that was sorely underfunded (and still is). I can't speak with authority on any others, but Wachusett Regional High School is most certainly not crap. Do I think that every additional cent that might be sent there would be put to good use? Not at all, it's bureaucracy and there will be wasted money. Do I think that more money sent there would make it better? Absolutely. It's tough to pay attention when water is dripping through the roof onto your desk...
You just made an excellent point on the achievements that more rural, underfunded school systems manage to make.....even with a fraction of the budget of the larger, urban school systems.
Public school is a waste. I look at the proportion of my property tax dollars and wonder just where the hell it's going. (The only thing I can figure is the buildings themselves). My high school experience was a freaking joke, I didn't know how much I didn't know until I reached college. We pour way to much money into crap like sports (yes I said it) and not enough into fundamental learning such as history, science, literature, writing, etc.
Eventually...we'll get back on topic......Younger members...where is your money going and is anyone older and more experienced trying to cuff you on the ears and teach you how to be financially secure?.....C'mon I6power....get the young 'uns together to join this thread!......
Eventually...we'll get back on topic......Younger members...where is your money going and is anyone older and more experienced trying to cuff you on the ears and teach you how to be financially secure?
That was the topic??
I learned a lot from my family about saving saving money and financial responsibility. I also learned that there are more important things than money, and for the last several years, I've chosen to take opportunities that didn't bring me much money, but were more fulfilling in other ways. So, I'm nearly broke, but happy right now.
Another important lesson came from a high school math teacher. He spent several days going over how interest works, going through lots of real-life and made-up but realistic examples of how much money you could make just by not spending it, and how much it costs to buy things by making payments over a long period of time. It wasn't in the book, and it wasn't on the test, but he thought it was important for us to see how it worked.
spending on sports is crap, my highschool went out of their way to make sure their football team always had the latest and greatest, in the mean time, several classes i went to just had enough text books for each desk, not each student, but as long as we maintained our "division 4a competiveness" no one cared, not even the brainwashed by sports parents.
I learned a lot from my family about saving saving money and financial responsibility. I also learned that there are more important things than money, and for the last several years, I've chosen to take opportunities that didn't bring me much money, but were more fulfilling in other ways. So, I'm nearly broke, but happy right now.
Another important lesson came from a high school math teacher. He spent several days going over how interest works, going through lots of real-life and made-up but realistic examples of how much money you could make just by not spending it, and how much it costs to buy things by making payments over a long period of time. It wasn't in the book, and it wasn't on the test, but he thought it was important for us to see how it worked.
*I'm 19, btw.
Excellent......See, Polarbear, you are affirmed!!!.....There's a good example of a high school (public school, JohnDeere?.....) teacher taking the time to try to hammer home some good lessons to young 'uns...and yes, you are correct......it ain't all about how much you make....being satisfied is important....but basically....:
"It ain't what you make...it's what you spend".......
That makes alot of sense. I was just curious and I see your reasoning. Sports have a big part of highschool. My parents don't have the money to send me to college. So, I rely on sports as a big part of my education. I play sports and I get good grades. I am in the process of getting offers from several schools. If it wasn't for sports, I wouldn't be going to college.
I see what you mean though. Personally I don't need fancy shoes, jerserys, and crap like that to prove I can ball. And yes I do spend alot of money. But I do work, and try to save money so that if I need I have atleast a small amount saved.
im 27 and i know im horrible with money... ive made about 200,000 dollars in the last 8 years and have nothing to show for it. i know i should have saved something, and im getting towards 30 which seems like when most people get their act together... ive already declared bankruptcy once and am not going through that again... im finally after 4 years getting my credit back in order but still havent saved anything... just trying to keep up on bills and get tools, parts for my truck, parts for my maverick, parts for my pinto, and keep gas in the van
im 27 and i know im horrible with money... ive made about 200,000 dollars in the last 8 years and have nothing to show for it. i know i should have saved something, and im getting towards 30 which seems like when most people get their act together... ive already declared bankruptcy once and am not going through that again... im finally after 4 years getting my credit back in order but still havent saved anything... just trying to keep up on bills and get tools, parts for my truck, parts for my maverick, parts for my pinto, and keep gas in the van
You're still young and can change it all around with the snap of a finger......Read "The Automatic Millionaire", by David Bach.....and thanks for being so candid. You opened yourself up, but you're not alone.....I had a $14,000.00 student loan before......Had it up to 120 days past due.......Got the phone calls, the letters, etc.....Got it paid up, but there you go. Had an auto loan......Was in college and fell behind.....Had it up to 90 days past due.....even had a phone call from a nasty rep from the credit union telling me to park the car at such and such place for "pickup".....managed to scramble a payment and keep it and pay it off......Didn't have a dime to call my own at the time, and was dreading having a telephone because of creditors calling and leaving messages.....
Many of us have been in the "debt" hole.......so definitely don't be embarrassed, but the time to fix it is now.....