i don't want any replies to this update as i just don't have enough tears left to use on the great things you all have, or will say.
the dr. pulled me aside yesterday and said i need to get things in order soon.
3 months she told me. how the hell can a person fix stuff in 3 months? how the hell do i tell her kids(my step kids) that it may be 3 friggin months.
guys, hug your wives hard, worship the time you have lived with her, and more so the time you'll get in the future. i pray God will let Nancy see another spring. our anniversary is in june and i don't see us celebrating it together. i'm not giving up nor will i 'till the hearse is here. but i'm going to live every day as it's our last. i beg you all, take a little from our crap, and love someone a little more. and keep in mind, any day could be the day you wished you had said "I love you"! God Bless you all my friends. for the private prayers, i can't say thanks enough, for the pm's i can say only thank you for you taking the time. it's been a source of comfort for both of us. forgive me for pushing this on you all. it's easier for me to type to people i don't know face to face than deal with my family in person. yeah i'm a coward
carl
p.s. i apologize for f'd up posts i may have made. i haven't been thinking right for a few months.

 

It's OK Carl. We are here for you. Things will turn around. Just cherish the time you have with her now. Keep us updated.

-Matt

 

First of all, its not over, till its over. Fear generates stress, which increases body acid, which increases a means for cancer to spread. Second, don't believe everything the medical profession tells you. I was misdiagnosed for ten years, all but left for dead, and finally diagnosed in the last days in 1999 with advanced thyroid cancer. I had a very caring surgeon, who performed a 6.5 hr operation. Still here!

People die every day in car accidents, you never know when it's your time.

Get the video "Cancer doesn't scare me anymore" by Dr. Loraine Day
" " " "The Colon, your second brain" by the "Tree of Life Co."
Take HUGE doses (9 caps/day) of Bob Barefoot Coral Calcium, and get sunlight in your eyes & walk a lot,
You need to balance your pH immediately,
Take all you can stand of Green Magma Barely,
Take AIM Co. HerbalFiber to clean out the colon and get rid of the waste,
this is imperative!

While I do not know your particular circumstance, I know MANY people that have had cancer. Our area is laced with it. I know of one family with as many as 5 people that have had thyroid cancer. Out of 5 adjoining homes on about 8 acres, three of us have had 4 thyroid/neck surgeries, one prostate, two breast, and two skin cancers, plus we have lost many pets as well.

The above mentioned products have done amazingly well, and the animals did extremely well with their lives before they died.

Best wishes to you and your family!

 

make them the best time of your life. there is one super big family in here praying for you and your family. g-d be with you .

 

I went through watching my dad die from cancer 11 years ago. All I can say is to spend as much time with the ones you love as you possibly can. Nothing is more important than they are!



Jim

 

I will be sending some up for you and Nancy, I am almost in tears here reading this. I couldnt imagine recieving such news. Just try to stay strong for her and you definatley have prayers being sent up on this end.

 

There just aren't words sometimes..... but our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

 

all i can say is cherish each day that is left. be strong for your family andlet them know just how much you love them. i pray that the doctors are wrong, or that there is a treatment, or treatment program, that can help. you might try the cancer treatment center as they have had some success. in the end however, we all pass on to the next life. and when we do we unfortunately leave behind loved ones that have to pick up the pieces and move on. make that transition as easy as possible by letting your love flow freely.

 

I've just been through this myself... and while not in the clear the future looks brighter everyday... I couldn't possibly begin to justify why one persons was curable, and another wasn't. I certainly could not be in your doctor's shoes to be able to tell you that you might only have three months... there is a lot of cancer support out there and you should seek it... I urge you not to fall into the extreme depression that typically follows that news... You're only recourse is to not let it beat you...

 

Hang in there, pal... where's there life, there is always hope. Never give up hope.

A candle is burning for you out in farm country tonight.

 

I'll be praying for you both and the family.

 

Enjoy your time with your family and our prayers are with you aand your family.God Bless

 

It's not easy telling your family that there is just 3 months.

My wife died over 4 years ago from cancer and the doctor told us that she had 3 to 6 months to live and she was gone in a week. Her daughters were old enough to undersatnd at the time but my son was only 3 and there is no way to explain death to a 3 year old autistic child.

I wish I had told her that I loved her more than I did but I can't change that now. I just know that she went to a better place and has a better life now than with all the problems cancer had caused her.

I know what you're going through. My prayers are with you!

 

you guys are all to kind and i take solace in your replies. as i said, we are a long way from giving up, but hearing the doc set a time frame was painfull. nancy still hasen't asked what the doc pulled me away for, i'm not sure she will and that worries me but the comfort i take from your words helps to ease my deamons created with this new info. i can't stress enough how much it means that strangers take the time to share experiences, prayers, & insight with another stranger in a forum of 300000 + people. i feel as if i'm sitting in my local gin joint with a bunch of my buds from home talking through this crap. there is a special place in Heaven for all of you. God Bless.
carl

 

that's what we're here for. Sometimes it's easier to talk to people you don't know in person. Whatever you have to say we're here to listen!



Jim