Well....I broke it off with my first true love last night.

I want a gf and she didnt want a bf, but told me she would be worth the wait. She told me she was in love with me. I have never waited for a girl, and I waited for her for 5 months. I couldnt do it anymore, and told her when she figures out what she wants then to let me know, and hopefully I will be avaliable. Things have changed now between us. I honestly dont think she loves me as much as she THINKS she does, or says she does. Oh well....

This is the crappiest feeling ever.

GRRRRR...damn drama!

 

There will be 100 more girls, I promise.

For what it's worth, it sounds like you did the right thing.

 

The first end of a relationship a guy goes through does hurt. Hang in there. It may be a while, but things will get better.

 

Girls are like busses, if you miss one another will be along soon. Wondering what could have been is a waste of perfectly good time that could be better used working on what will be (Hillbilly philosophy).
Dono

 

First love I had was seventeen, and I was younger,
Love to us was some kind of game.
In all my letters, said I never would forget her - now,
I can't recall her name.

The first time I was a fool, I never knew that love could be so cruel.
It happened to me again - Third time lucky.

---Foghat


Ok, so it took a few longer than 3 for me, but that's beside the point...there's lots of girls out there, and you're doing the right thing by saying goodbye to a thing that's not working out, and none too soon!

 

When Dono met his future wife there was only ONE bus

 

Well something else happened tonight that drastically changed things....
Unfortunatly since this is a family site, I cant say.

Just imagin the worst and there ya go.................

 

Unfortunately, I think we all have a little different definition of "the worst." In my book, if someone isn't dead or dying, we're not there yet- everything else is workable.

 

using my imagination I think I can figure it out, now add bieng married to them for 7 years when something like that happens, and tell me how you feel.

 

Light bulb just flicked on. ding ding ding- we have a winner!

 

Wezol5484, don't worry about her man, she ain't worth your time. Just like the other guys are telling you, there are a lot more fish in the sea.

I thought about getting back out on the dating scene again, then I thought about how it sucks not to have any money in my pocket.

- Chris

 

I dont know what to do. Ive always been a firm believer that most everything can be fixed, if both people want to bad enough.

Everytime I think about her with him doing that, I want to throw up.

I had a long talk with her last night, basically consisted of me tearing her a new one. Without cussing or yelling, just stern "lecturing".

I told her how ashamed and disgusted I was, and how much it dissapoints me that she led me to think she was someone shes not.

Ive defended her left and right, because I thought I knew her. I broke my hand over a guys face because he called her a **** (I walked away, he pushed me, I turned, he swung, I sidestepped, I swung).

I dont know what to do.

I will be going home from college tonight, to see her and talk to her. Also to get my spare key and remote that she has to my truck. (dont ask)

Im just so disgusted. What ever happened to girls who have morals and dignity?

WHERE ARE YOU!!!

 

Dude, don't waste your time talking. Just get your stuff and leave. You're not going to change her, and forgive me, but you're just trying to have the last word because you're hurt. Been there, done that. It doesn't help.

Just walk out quietly, with your head high, dignity intact. If she has a decent molecule in her body, she'll get it. If she doesn't, you won't waste your time.

The best revenge is living well.

 

Hey mang, that sucks. Don't worry about it though.

The single life is awesome! You can go to any party you want and flirt with any girl you want. You're a free man when you're single.

 

I think you just discovered reason number (scratches head, trying to remember) about five I think, never to confuse love with emotional dependancy.

Whatever you do, don't devalue your own worth over it. You don't need her anyway...

I think a lot of relations start out wrong over a basic perception problem. People look for one of three things: A partner, a slave, or a master.

If you percieve yourself as having to slave to maintain a relationship - you ain't the master.

If on the other hand you knowingly put yourself in the reverse role - it is just as bad.

The ideal relation is a partnership. I reiterate: It is the "IDEAL". As in "Goal to be Attained".

Anything else just doesn't seem to work very well in the long run. You have to both want the same thing(s).

That hasn't happened for you yet, apparently.
Don't sweat it, you don't want to force yourself into a bad deal.

You'll know the right one when she shows up - you'll be best friends!