This week has been horrible like it almost can't get any worse. My BEST friend is 17 years old and got 2 girls pregnate in one week (OUCH!) Another good friend got stabbed and died at a local redreck party, and the last girl have been talking to I called to tell her I'm sending a B-day card and she says oh ya! by the way I found someone else his name is ------ ------------ and We are going to the movies and bowling saterday night and will got to Austin to meet my aunt. He is such a geat guy.........Oh but YOU are the most mature responsible person I know...Using my better qualities against me -What the Man not this. I said well I got my money's worth out ya, and SHE got histaracle BAD!!! What the devil was she thinking I lost a good friend and another's life is over. She does this!
My mom said it WILL get better and I told her that I need to move up in age group like 21-25 and GUESS what she agreed and said you know what you want in life so go for it i'm not stopping you even if there is a slight 2-6 year age diffrence.
Well I got her support I got to get to the post office and burn that card
Later
Dustin

 

ouch dude. i dunno what to say....i hope it gets better for ya....good luck with all that

 

17 and 2 girls pregnant.... wow, thats ruff

 

that sucks about you loosing your friend...


now getting two chicks pregnant..it shoud be one...do they have proof...has he heard of "The love glove" i dont know the circumstnaces...but dang..hes gettin alot...lol

it will all get better...i had one of thsoe weeks..well days back in feb

i had gotten ISS then i got into another fight...my granpa died and then my g/f broke up with me...all on a monday in feb

 

Bad news: it only gets worse as you get older.

 

HK,
No man Tell me no. I ain't suicidle but give me a gun I'll save everyone the punishment.
Dude whats next ? Girl , Best bud get 2 pregnate, Buddy dies.
Drop a bomb on my doorstep and it will end! Somebody PLEASE!!!!!

 

heck it might happen...the buddy with the two kids..he prolly end up with child support and one kid...or neither...they may get abortions..they may generally lose the babys...

i know people that there parents had them when they were 16 and there doing well...some are entreuners....

i think my friend is going to end up with thayt porblem before he gets out of hs...

 

You learn to handle disappointments without going bonkers. No big deal.

Look on the bright side. YOU didn't get killed. YOU didn't get 2 girls pregnant. YOU found out the girlfriend was a ditz BEFORE you got too involved. YOU are the LUCKY one!!! Now SMILE and be HAPPY!!!

 

Sounds like you need to find some better friends. I highly suggest you don't sit at a computer... get outside and do something. I lost a good friend when I was younger... it was very difficult. Suicide is definetly not an answer to anything, neither is an abortion. Your buddies need to take some responsibility, the one sounds like he just donated the next 18 years of his life, and his paychecks to prove he can be responsible.

 

look o the bright side, you could be living at the astrodome for the next 4 months

 

Dustin_86, Time to move on.

It's called growing up, like it or not.

You'll get over it.

 

UBU

-Trust me, it works.

 

Yeah. I agree with Torque.

Count your blessings before doing anything foolish. Life goes on. Learn from those mistakes. Sounds like your friend should have been more responsible...like you.

Losing a friend from a stupid shooting, that is sad. But you have memories of him...not as good as having him there alive. But you knew him and the good/bad times being his friend. That should count for something.

As for the girlfriend, what can I say....and I a woman...and mother of a 19 year old girl. I know what my daughter would say....yep, a "ditz". She had a girlfriend she grew up with and even saved her friend's life a couple of times because of some bad mistakes. As soon as they went to high school, they parted.

Why? Because the girlfriend fell for all the assisine stuff that always happens in high school. My daughter knew better but her friend would not listen and they went their seperate ways.

My 22 year old son didnt fall for the usual high school stuff either.

Must be the way my husband and I brought them up. Just as your parents did a good job with you.

So, hang in there. You will survive this even with the hurts.

 

In case it came across too cryptic:

UBU = YOU be YOU


Always...

 

I was wondering what that meant Greywolf. I've had a few of those weeks, but everything will always get better. By better I don't mean you'll be rolling in the dough and making millions of dollars and have all the friends you could ever need/want, but to be a better person within yourself. Make the best of what you have, and don't fret over it. Good luck.