Wow, I'm about to go nuts.. I met a really nice girl, she came over late friday after I got off of work. We watched a movie and talked. All was cool. Now it's a few days later and she won't even return my calls... When she left we were officially a couple.... I'm about to just give up again.

 

If you want I can come over late and watch a movie and talk if you will feel better. <img src='http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_1_21.gif' border=0></a>

Seriously though that is how women are. Leave a message and see what happens. Is it possible she is out of town or something?

-Matt

 

No, she's in town... I have seen her at her workplace a few times.... It's just so irritating when they tell you they want to be with you and then leave ya hangin...... I'm about to forget about her and move on...

 

Women are like that. Sometimes is better just to leave them alone and move on. *

-Matt

*This action is null and void if she is a MAJOR hottie!

 

In my book she is PERFECT. She's beautiful.... I left her a nasty voicemail here a few minutes ago.. I am just going to not call her or even talk to her for a week or so and see what happens.


I have a feeling that she's just really busy, she works for the worst company in the world... They are working her to death. She is supposed to be off of work tomorrow and I fully expect her to show up where I work (same company diff. store) and act like nothing is wrong...

 

women are more trouble than they are worth!!

I say if she wants to be around you, then she will find you. besides, if she isn't into trucks and the automotive hobby in general, then she won't make you as happy later on down the road.

test this by taking your lady friend to a few car shows, if she stays genuinely interested for more than 2 hours, then you've gat a keeper!!

all others should be treated as temporary girlfriends!!! hahaha

just forget about her and go work on your truck in your driveway, if she pulls up and asks why you never call, just say you figured she wasn't interested and left her alone. women aren't worth all the stress.

 

Dood! She fixes her own car........... Like I said she's the perfect woman (at least in my eyes)... She's not biased about what she drives, as long as it runs.... Which is cool too.. I feel I may have scared her a little friday night.. She got here around 2:30 am (sat morn) and we fell asleep about 6. her dad called yelling at her at 8:30. Then a day later she's not returning my calls or answering her cell when I call.. She answers for a mutual friend tho.. So I don't know.

 

she still livin' with dad? nothing wrong with that, but that's probly why she isn't calling. dad can track her phone activity. dad don't like you keeping her baby out all night doing things that he can't control. or worse yet, things that "kids" do. don't worry about it, if you are the right one for her, then you'll hear from her.

 

She's 19, I'm 25... Neither one of us has had a b/f or g/f in a while. Things got a little hot and heavy.. I feel she might just be scared a little.. We did move a little quick...

 

Some women/girls don't like guys who seem too eager

Maybe think about that for a while

 

My opinion:
Could be that you did scare her... I mean, that's a bit of an age difference. Sometimes we women get ahead of ourselves and do things, then realize we're not comfortable with them. 1 Possibility.
If you think she's just really busy, why leave her the nasty voicemail? Perhaps she's really stressed and doesn't want to add another dimension to her stress? Sometimes when a guy calls me and I'm feeling really pissy I try not to answer, even if I really, really want to. I can be pretty mean sometimes, I'll admit, so sometimes it's better to hear from me after my crappy mood has passed.
You said that you've seen her at work a few times... you haven't been going there intentionally have you? If she's seen you in places you'd most likely be looking to run into her, she might be a little creeped out. Been there, have the bad memories... cornering someone at work is a bad way to talk.
Finally... perhaps her dad IS pissed at her for staying out all night worrying him. She might be trying to keep your relationship quiet so he doesn't find out. If your 19 year old daughter was trying to date a 25 year old, I'm pretty sure you'd have a fit too. So anyway, I hope it's nothing bad, but chill out and grow up a little... just let it go and if it's going to happen, it will. I know I've had more than my share of this kind of stuff... the worst thing you can do is something you might regret... like leaving nasty messages only to find out her dog died or something. Besides, the three day rule starts from the day she leaves your house, which was Saturday morning... give the lady some time!

 

Rule...Diane ?

I didn't know they printed a rule book yet ?

 

What gets me is she will call our mutual friend (IE has time to call him) but won't call me.

 

Um..few simple words...maybe "shes just not that into you!" I will admit I left lot of guys thinkin I was into them.Believe me if she was into you she'd find the time to show you she's into you.

 

I second that..........