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"girl" advice?
There is this girl that I have a few classes with and she keep "flirting" with me but wont ask me out. I really don't want to date but the "friends" thing would be nice. I like her and she has a good personality and looks good to boot. I'm really shy because of some quite noticable phisical disabilitys. and that is just a little depressing.
Oh ya and what does it me when she acted like she was going to "elbow drop" me on my chest when I was leaning back to strech. She was smiling when she did it. she acted like she was going to do it agian when I stood up to throw trash away. She says stuff to like hey have you been working out..------ummmm not really. but I went along with her comment.
I think she likes to wrestle and that might be her real way of flirting..
Hey I'll go along with that she would be fun to mess with...
I ment that in a "clean" way if she wants to wrestle.. I'm game for it.....
Oh ya and what does it me when she acted like she was going to "elbow drop" me on my chest when I was leaning back to strech. She was smiling when she did it. she acted like she was going to do it agian when I stood up to throw trash away. She says stuff to like hey have you been working out..------ummmm not really. but I went along with her comment.
I think she likes to wrestle and that might be her real way of flirting..
Hey I'll go along with that she would be fun to mess with...
I ment that in a "clean" way if she wants to wrestle.. I'm game for it.....
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You mention that she won't ask you out and that you don't really want to date. What if she asks you out? Way I see it....it's going to take a dinner date or something to get to know her. Ask her out for dinner or something.....what's it gonna hurt? She may be the one that steals your heart and you may steal hers.
Just take your time at whatever you do.
It's when you stop looking for that special someone.....that's when they come into your life.
Just take your time at whatever you do.
It's when you stop looking for that special someone.....that's when they come into your life.
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Dude remember i'm the shy one...... Me<------ 
I get "stupid" when talking to the "nicer" girls like this one.. I start to loose my train of though, start getting real nervous, and walk all over my own words-say stuff without really thinking....
I'm a looser I'll just face the facts now and just think of what coulda been a decent thing. She can do better.
I don't have it in me to ask.,....
I get "stupid" when talking to the "nicer" girls like this one.. I start to loose my train of though, start getting real nervous, and walk all over my own words-say stuff without really thinking....
I'm a looser I'll just face the facts now and just think of what coulda been a decent thing. She can do better.
I don't have it in me to ask.,....
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Id agree with the other post just ask her out, if you dont want a girl friend just ask her out as a friend, to like the movies or dinner, even a sporting event. You think your shy girls are just as shy if not shyer, chances are she will not ask you out she will just keep hinting that she likes you, but you should def. go it, never know what will turn out the worst that can happen is nothing one more thing i want to add, girls are not like guys they are more into personality rather than looks, sure looks gets you in the door but if you ask most girls they will tell you they'd rather date a guy for his personality rather than looks,
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Get over being shy. It get's you no where in life. Either ask her out or tell her to get lost, that you are shy. I don't know what what your disabililtys are and don't need to know, but don't let them get the best of you. My brother looked like the north end of a south bound mule, and he got more girls than most people did. I always felt that it was better to have more friends that were girls than friends that were guys. That way you will learn more about the females. Like what they like, and want and need. But you will never learn all about them.
So ask her.
So ask her.
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Ask her out, She is probably hopeing that you do anyways. Trust me it is alot easier to meet women in high school, then in the real world. I agree it is good to have alot of women friends, but there is a point that if you have too many people may ask questions.
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Here's advice from a girl-
Girls like to have guy friends, but I think she's flirting too much for that. She's probably interested in you; you have no reason to be shy. As far as your disabilities, any girl that is more interested in your looks than your personality isn't worth dating anyways.
Girls like to have guy friends, but I think she's flirting too much for that. She's probably interested in you; you have no reason to be shy. As far as your disabilities, any girl that is more interested in your looks than your personality isn't worth dating anyways.
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When it comes to women:
- assume nothing
- get everything in writing
- have an attorney present at all times
OK...maybe the last couple are excessive (a little)...but the "assume nothing" part is valid. Decide what you want first (you sound a little torn about whether you want her to be just a friend or possibly romantic)...then pursue it.
- assume nothing
- get everything in writing
- have an attorney present at all times
OK...maybe the last couple are excessive (a little)...but the "assume nothing" part is valid. Decide what you want first (you sound a little torn about whether you want her to be just a friend or possibly romantic)...then pursue it.
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Dustin,. you state you are a Looser.
I'm pretty sure you meant, Loser.
IMO that one should Never Ever call themselves a Loser.
You need some positive feedback from people to build your self-esteem.
Right now,I see that in this Girl.
Do something together, to get an idea of what she is too truly like.
At your age,Having dinner together for a first date to me is silly.
I suggest doing something neutral,with a bunch of people around you.
Roller Skating,Bowling, Car/Truck Show...things like this.
After, maybe stop at a Ice Cream shop or someplace like that
Remember one thing though , It's a HUGE ocean out there& it's full of Fish.
Good Luck & Cover your Back
I'm pretty sure you meant, Loser.
IMO that one should Never Ever call themselves a Loser.
You need some positive feedback from people to build your self-esteem.
Right now,I see that in this Girl.
Do something together, to get an idea of what she is too truly like.
At your age,Having dinner together for a first date to me is silly.
I suggest doing something neutral,with a bunch of people around you.
Roller Skating,Bowling, Car/Truck Show...things like this.
After, maybe stop at a Ice Cream shop or someplace like that
Remember one thing though , It's a HUGE ocean out there& it's full of Fish.
Good Luck & Cover your Back
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You all are GREAT!! i'll post back tomarrow.
Anything to help me get over being "stupid" around her as I will probly make myself look like crap. As posted earlier. I get nervous and really don't know what to say next, loose my train of thought that sorta thing..
Anything to help me get over being "stupid" around her as I will probly make myself look like crap. As posted earlier. I get nervous and really don't know what to say next, loose my train of thought that sorta thing..
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Act as if you are dating her already, just tell her you are free _____ night, and was wondering if she wanted to go to dinner, movie, dinner & a movie, but not the planetarium ect. ect. (haha) You must have confidence, about everything. Most people think I own 3/4's of the whole world, its all in presentation man. And if she says she is busy, just say "it's cool, maybe some other time" and walk off making her think you don't care if you date her or not.
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