Regaining Trust (LONG!)
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From: Grapeview, WA
Originally Posted by Mil1ion
I don't encourage "Re-Bound " dating.
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One day when you least expect it girl ........... Poof !
You have met a knight in shining armour or ......shining Ford Pick-up
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One day when you least expect it girl ........... Poof !
You have met a knight in shining armour or ......shining Ford Pick-up
Yep...that's what happened to me. I stopped looking and then one day I found the man of my dreams driving a gorgeous lifted Powestroke. Funny the way things work out....
But, I'm glad for you...take each new day as it it and enjoy yourself.
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From: The hills of No. Calif.
You will have to be firm in your resolve, but don't call him and the next time he calls you, let him know in no uncertain terms that you have better things to do with your time. At some point you will find a nice guy who drives a Ford truck and a Mustang, preferably a convertible, and has a fully functioning brain. -TD
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From: Raleigh, NC
Originally Posted by Birdhunter1
Same type of crappy thing happened to me and I was about to ask that big question. I'm glad I smelled the roses, I saw her a few weeks later in a bar and she came up to me to talk and said, I remember this exactly " I haven't heard from you in a while, what's up?" I looked right at her and said (maybe ther's a reason" and I went to grab anohter beer. It felt so great, plus it made my beer taste better.
I'm about fed up with the girl I'm with. Shes always on the computer when I am and she never talks to me, and jumps my case when I ask her what's on her mind to talk about and she says nothing. She lives 4 hours from here. I'm about ready to take the pocket knife out and cut this string between us.
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From: Southern NH
I think the majority of people have gone through a similar situation. I was traumatized by my emotionally damaging marriage. But when I came out of it, I was a stronger and less naive person. You need to get control over your feelings, and use your head. Be confident and fearless, and say what your feeling and what your thinking. Be ready to hear the good and the bad. And always keep foremost in your mind that you are a special person, and the guy that wants to hook up with you better be deserving of you.
Sorry guys if I seem a bit b-ish. I'm far from being a man hater.
D-ranged, get rid of the guy, hang in there, and good luck girl!
Robin
Sorry guys if I seem a bit b-ish. I'm far from being a man hater.
D-ranged, get rid of the guy, hang in there, and good luck girl!
Robin
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From: House Springs, MO
Originally Posted by D-ranged2.5
Well, actually... this guy *does* drive a Ford Mustang... and a Cobra at that!
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this may be hard to believe, but most of the time, us guys have no idea what we really want. the problem here is he is not strong enough to tell you that.(i've been that guy before) just know, that relationships are not supposed to be one sided like that, and now you have a first hand way of telling if that's going on. i hope that if you drive a long distance to see someone, and they dont treat you like the most special person in the world, that you will get in your car and not look back.
i will apologize on behalf of this man and say, we should be more honest about how we are feeling.
not to make excuses, but it's really hard to say things that you know might make a girl cry.
i will apologize on behalf of this man and say, we should be more honest about how we are feeling.
not to make excuses, but it's really hard to say things that you know might make a girl cry.
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From: Murphysboro, IL
To MW95, it wasn't a tear in my beer thing I was just empty and it was nearing half past beer 30. I had already adopted the concept of MOVEON so it didn't bother me a bit. What got me was that her new boyfriend was there with her when she came up to say hi and then confornted me later about being a jerk and making her cry. I just told him wait a while, you'll understand.
To D-Ranged: I'm a nice guy with a fully functioning brain and I drive a nice Ford truck like Tiger was talking about, but sorry no Mustang yet.
To D-Ranged: I'm a nice guy with a fully functioning brain and I drive a nice Ford truck like Tiger was talking about, but sorry no Mustang yet.
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From: Raleigh, NC
Originally Posted by Birdhunter1
To MW95, it wasn't a tear in my beer thing I was just empty and it was nearing half past beer 30. I had already adopted the concept of MOVEON so it didn't bother me a bit. What got me was that her new boyfriend was there with her when she came up to say hi and then confornted me later about being a jerk and making her cry. I just told him wait a while, you'll understand.
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From: Detroit, MI
Read this. Learn it, Live it, Love it. It explains everything. Your low on his ladder. Move on.
http://www.intellectual*****s.com/masterladder.html
http://www.intellectual*****s.com/masterladder.html
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From: Los Angeles, California
Oh that stupid ladder theory
that just proves men are pigs....
The sad part even if it is true, how low is that?
I hate that thing!
as far as D-Ranged is concerned... everyone has said it Move on!
Good Luck... and I am sure there is some nice man out there who doesnt go by the ladder theory....
on edit... about my men are pigs comment.. OK not all men are like that because I can think of many on this site that dont strike me as that type..
I just got a little hot about that ladder theory so sorry if I offended anyone..
Women can be evil too
that just proves men are pigs....
The sad part even if it is true, how low is that?
I hate that thing!
as far as D-Ranged is concerned... everyone has said it Move on!
Good Luck... and I am sure there is some nice man out there who doesnt go by the ladder theory....
on edit... about my men are pigs comment.. OK not all men are like that because I can think of many on this site that dont strike me as that type..
I just got a little hot about that ladder theory so sorry if I offended anyone..
Women can be evil too
Last edited by Kundalini; Sep 9, 2004 at 11:22 AM.
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From: Detroit, MI
Originally Posted by Kundalini
Oh that stupid ladder theory
that just proves men are pigs....
The sad part even if it is true, how low is that?
I hate that thing!
that just proves men are pigs....
The sad part even if it is true, how low is that?
I hate that thing!
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From: Los Angeles, California
Originally Posted by dzervit
Don't be a ladder 'hater!! Its scary how real his theory really is. Give it a chance.
but I have plenty of guy friends.... enough said
word of advice dont share this theory with any girl you plan on being with....
It was better when it was just between the guys