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I use to be really shy, but now I voice my opinion. Good or bad. Like I told my husband on our first date when he commented on how quiet I was. "One of these days I'll start talking and you will wish that I would shut up." Boy how he wishes for the good ole days!
usually i dont say anything unless theres something that needs to be said. but if im with a good friend or im talking about somethin i really like then i can go on for a while.
I spent my last 16 years before retiring in sales. One of the first things a professional salesman learns is to SHUT UP. The object of a sales call is to assist the customer in making the right decision (to buy your product). You do that by asking questions, LISTENING and responding - not by a barrage of words. Those who think anyone with a gift for gab could can succeed in sales have no idea.
Ok Dono, you are right about salesmen. Being a lawyer is where I would have the absolute least chance of success. You have to talk alot and lie at the same time.
Originally posted by Mike W I don't which probably reflects in my posts. If I don't have something to say, I don't. I like to get to the point without any excess fluff. I work solving problems with machines that don't talk back. I would be dead if I had to be a lawyer or a salesman. I must not be a "people person". How about you?
Originally posted by jeffthompson I want to talk, but in reality it causes too many problems some times because I'm too honest and tell people what I really think.
Me too. Some days my only purpose for opening my mouth is to change feet and then continue, while the other shoe is drying out.
As for the gift of gab, nah....well.......ok, a little bit.
Calvin Coolidge, also known as "Silent Cal," found himself sitting next to a woman at a state dinner who told him, "Mr. President, I bet my husband earlier today that I could get you to say at least three words to me tonight."
President Coolidge looked at her and replied, "you lose."
Dono- you couldn't be more right about salespeople. I've said many times that, I'm only selling when the CUSTOMER is talking, not when I am. If I could just get that across to Ford Motor Co.
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