I'm no prude, but I am shy. That is because I deep down inside really do care what people think, in particular women regardless of what I may say. I am not an outwardly expressive person. But I am a good person. I am no drunk. I don't beleive in organized religion. I am clean. I don't frequent bars. I drink at home if I feel the need.
Being shy is not a bad thing, but it hurts when people make fun of you because you are. Most women I have encountered are mainly looking out for themselves in the end. Fact!

Just so you know...I did finally find a good woman and married her.
Just way , way too many women out there who have the "I"m too good for you attitude".
I ain't met one yet who's crap don't stink, regardless of what they think!

 

uncleBS,
Here's to that last statement.
Right on. I don't care what all those women told me about you.

 

Jen, maybe the only dance he could do was the 'Horizontle Rhumba' and on the Dance Floor he was just sorta shuffeling from foot to foot waiting for the Right Words to come out..... er, about the only dance he could do.

 

I don't think the majority of guys who go to dance halls, go just to dance, I think they are looking for girlfriends.

I think the vast majority of us are incompetent dancers and only go in the hopes of finding some fun. Of course there are some guys who truly do go because they like to dance. I know a few and I envy some of them, the others are questionable. The rest of us are just two legged dogs, and you have seen how they dance at the circus.

Actually my wife says I dance more like I'm doing the Indian rain dance, so guess I'm not gonna impress any cuties any time soon with my Fred Astaire style.

Jim Henderson

 

Things that make me say "Huh..."

I don't dance (I just - Don't.) I dunno why, guess I always felt too self conscious & clumsy.

I do enjoy music though, and beer goes without saying!

I guess I'm more of a garage sort of personality, or the kind of guy that would rather listen to music you really can't dance to anyway. Hard rock, and metal - that kind of thing.

Classical concerts, like the fourth of July concert with Arthur Fiedler and the Boston Pops (watched it live on TV with my Poppa many years ago, it was one of the few things we agreed on)

I know that seems like a kind of a strange sort of mix - rock and classical, but it takes all kinds.

What I have always wondered is - where are all the Ladies that don't dance going to meet people?


And not that I'm particularly shy or anything - but I'm the last person on earth to buy someone a single drink, annoy them for fifteen minutes or so, and then insist on sleeping with them!

 

>Just out of curiosity, because you don't list a profile, how
>old are you and where are you from?


I'm 19 (soon to be 20 in a few months) and from College Station, Tx.


Gig'em

 

>Just way , way too many women out there who have the "I"m
>too good for you attitude".
>I ain't met one yet who's crap don't stink, regardless of
>what they think!

Trust me, I do not think I am better than anyone else...by all means. But when someone treats me rudely, it kinda upsets me! Wouldn't it you?

Gig'em

 

>Just out of curiosity, because you don't list a profile, how
>old are you and where are you from?

I'm 19 (soon to be 20 in a few months) and from College Station, Tx


I'm a forty three year old soon to be NAVY retiree, also soon to make major decisions about remaining married.

But I'm 'way too old for ya, sweetheart. I'll go back to memphis and play with trucks cars and motorcycles as long as I can.

And if I write a few books in the meantime - good on me!


~Wolfy

 

I'm 20 years old and available. I'm always on the look out for a girl. But I don't make an **** out of myself or anything like this guy did by trying to hit on them. I just play it cool. When the right one come along, I'll know!

 

"MOODS OF A WOMAN

An angel of truth and a dream of fiction,
a woman is a bundle of contradiction,
she's afraid of a wasp, will scream at a mouse,
but will tackle her boyfriend alone in the house.
Sour as vinegar, sweet as a rose,
she'll kiss you one minute, then turn up her nose,
she'll win you in range, enchant you in silk,
she'll be stronger than brandy, milder than milk
at times she'll be vengeful, merry and sad,
she'll hate you like poison, and love you like mad!

MOODS OF SOME MEN


Horny."


This explains why women are so complicated and why men are so simple!!

 

I thought I already posted that on page 1 ?

Vuja De

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I have always found dancing to be a waste of energy. Yup, you're right, I didn't do well on the bar scene since I was there to have a good time instead of "chasing it".

I can appreciate people who dance well, I just can't see myself wasting the time to dance that good.

The funny thing is, I love music, but just see no reason to go jerk around on a dance floor while panning off smooth lines to chicks that are ..... - I'll stop there.:-) Jen, what you did was fine, it's just that you were in the wrong place with the wrong person.

I didn't meet my wife by dancing. She can attest to that.

 

Yo, Jen, nothin' personal but you are expecting what (!) at this local hangout, Matt Damon?
If you are looking savoir fair, don't shop at the county fair.

Guys, (and women), with class and something going on don't stand around "staring" at chicks in a bar.
You were expecting what, Prince Harry?

If you want to hang with oafs, go out to the local dump, act like a local swamp rat, and just swim baby, swim.

 

>
>Yo, Jen, nothin' personal but you are expecting what (!) at
>this local hangout, Matt Damon?
> If you are looking savoir fair, don't shop at the county
>fair.
>
>Guys, (and women), with class and something going on don't
>stand around "staring" at chicks in a bar.
>You were expecting what, Prince Harry?
>
>If you want to hang with oafs, go out to the local dump, act
>like a local swamp rat, and just swim baby, swim.

It sounds to me like she was there just to hang out with her friends and have a good time and not lookin' for a guy. From what you said it sounds like you think she got what she deserved for being at that place. I don't believe any woman should be treated like that. Maybe that's not what you mean but it is late and that's how I took it, and I appoligize if I'm wrong.

If the guy had treated her with more respect and tried to get to know her maybe she'd been more interested and he'd had the pleasure of her company. I can't believe how many guys there are out there that don't seem to have respect for woman or other people for that matter. And I'm not meaning anybody in the group. I'll agree, there are some woman that don't seem to deserve much respect, but you should still try to respect them.

I'm a shy guy and have a hard time meeting girls. I like having one-on-one conversations, so I like slow dancing so we can talk. I'm not into anything I really actually have to move around the floor for though And just a little food for thought, it is said that you can tell how a guy is in the "intimacy" department by the way he dances Just something to think about

 

FR, first off you don't owe me an apology. Your opinion is a valuable as anyone else's, probably more than mine.

I am totally down with you as far as the dance floor thing goes.
As a young buck in the rut I always felt I had two choices; flail and shake like a crazy man for the fast songs, and clench and grind with the slow ones.

Second point, about respect, you are 200% right. No woman deserves to be treated with anything less than the respect we would show our own mom. Guys who fail to show regard for women expose the weakness in their ownselves.
You sound like a nice guy, stay the course as a gentleman.