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i need some advice . this girl ive been dating for a month invited me over to a party a her friends house(she lives there) ware i met this guy. and we started talking normal bs cars, motorcycles, stupid stuff we have done, and girls. he then proceeds to tell me that some time earlyer this week he and my girlfriend umm ya know. but he doesnt know that me and her have been dating for just under a month. some how that night he found out and tryed talking to me about it. i just walked away dont need to go to prison for murder. but she doesnt know yet that i know. i confirmed the story with the girl she lives with. so its true But theres some thing about her that drives me nuts..... What the heck should i do iam soooo confused
The phrase "kicked to the curb" mean anything to ya? Exactly what you need to do with this tramp. You'll find plenty of other women out there that will "drive you nuts". No need at all to put up with bs like that,,, plus the major issue is,,,Health!! How do you know they used protection or that they are disease-free? Serious times for this kind of crap. You're much better off with someone else.
Ah, ya must be a young one !!! End the relationship. If it's bothering you now, it will only get worse the longer you're with her !! It's an old saying, but..... There Are Plenty Of Other Fish In The Sea !!!
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I completely agree with these guys who already feel for ya.
However I'd just like you to consider some alternative advice.
I assume you two have probably only gone out 3 times or so ("me and her have been dating for just under a month"). I'm not gonna say you shouldn't care, just be pro-active not reactive ("don't need to go to prison for murder").
Pretend you never spoke to this guy about her or talked to her roomate. Pick it up with her right where you left off. That guy might become a good friend in the future, you never know. At least he will help you temper your feelings for her ("theres some thing about her that drives me nuts.....") if you find out you can't play this game like she does.
Maybe you could arrange to have the girlfriend catch you and her friend??? On second thought, don't sink to her level. Just calmly let her know that you know what she did and that is the reason that you are dumping her.
shes all ready gone. after the party last night she called a friend and yea so. so i went and talked to her today found out what happen last night after i left so i said see ya. felt pretty good lightn tires up in reverse when i left. thanks for the advice
Relationships suck. This is coming from a guy who was in a bad two year relationship, I mean bad.
Good thing you got away from her. Nobody needs to mess with that sort of thing with someone sneaking around behind your back and then greeting you with a smile.