I have this girl that I know is interested in me I am not sure if I should ask her on a date cause I know I was her second choice. My friend,his girlfriend, and this girl are going to come to my house sometime this weekend for a fire and to hang out. She told my friend that she wanted me to ask her out on a date and he knows everything and he said go for it. I was just thinking about doing it and just having fun, but then my stupid pride gets ahold of me and I start thinking about being her second choice.So I just thought you guys could help me out by saying what you would do. Thanks for the help.

 

Well I would go for her and just have fun (even though you were her 2nd choice)

When I ask girls out for a 1st date.... I usually bring up shooting and ask if they have ever shot a gun/been shooting etc.
Regardless of their answer (usually no) I say "well I am going out to the range this weekend/tomorrow/etc, why dont you come along? Ill teach you how to shoot"
So far its worked 100% of the time
Plus if yall ever go for a 3rd 4th date you can play games like a kiss for a bullzeye lol

If you want to ask her out on a more formal date (dinner/etc) there isn't really an easy around taht...just gotta ask. I usually ask when they are really really stressed (and trying to find some time to relax)....I say something along the lines of "why dont we go out to someplace night tonight? It will give you a chance to relax and finally enjoy a night off"
So far it has worked pretty well...

good luck w/your girl...keep us posted


on edit: dont forget pictures...w/out pictures it didnt happen!

 

she might not be your first choice either, no ones perfect

 

Cowboy up.

 

Thank you everyone for your help,I am going to ask her out on a date and just see whats happens with it.

For Maverick1701, I'll think about the pics,depends on how detailed they are.lol

Thanks again.

 

lol sounds good

 

lol got to show that picture to my friend.

 

Just Ask Her,,, Don't Be A Melon Head!!!!!

 

Ask no fear of rejection if she told someone to tell you to ask her LOL

 

Go for it.. what do you have to lose? Do you think most people awake one day during puberty... and find their life partner?? Go have fun while you still can!

 

hey bud sounds like your in. no worries.

so long as she likes your truck.

 

If you don't ask her someone else will.Hell that would technically make them the third choice and so on.She must be into you.and when you do play 20% shy 80% confident=perfect gentleman...goodluck

 

Thanks guys, the next time I see her I will.

 

Id say do it. What have you got to lose nothing.. If you dont ask youve lost already. Ahh second choice it wouldnt worry me. Maybe that first guy was supposed to be so great but your really the one she wants. Have a good time treat her well an see what happens from there. Your just as good as the next guy. Hey and if it dont work out. Hey thats part off life move on try again. Dont let it get to you. Keep us posted on how you turn out.