Ya can't tell if an Expedition has HD tow just by looking at it unless you look closely for the round "Bargman" trailer wiring connector on the right side of the receiver. They all have the Class 3/4 (2") receiver.
I couldn't find a single HD Tow Expedition last year, nor could my dealer. I drove over to another dealer who had a dozen Expeditions on the lot and not a single one with HD Tow. The salesman looked at me funny and told me it'd tow 6000 pounds. What more did I want? Took 8 weeks for an XLT to be built to my specs. HD Tow. No air suspension!
I found the dealer stocking recommendation on one Ford website. 10% HD tow is about right. Dealers, of course, will order them based on their own experience but I see very few HD tow setups locally.
-- Chuck