well you got two choices buddy.....if she really want you back go down there and take care of busness (run the new BF off) then either ask for a dna or get with her and raise it as you kid... rember any one can make a baby but a father is another story.... as long as the kid always know you as dad it won't matter who donated to the cause...

or wait it out and go from there but if it's yours it will be ruff have 2 kids 2 differnt mom's and trying to live of what you make (depending of the mothers) and trying to have a new women in the picture... step lightly this situation could go from happy to hell in 3.1 seconds

 

Aint that the truth...

 

I was being nice. But tell y'all what. If I had a friend that tried to get his girl to give me a hand job........... We just became better buddies....
If it was me, and the girl came back. Without a doubt I'd raise him/her as mine. But I would have to know either way. I have a stepdaughter that is 15 that I've raised since she was 11 month's old.
I love her, she isn't mine, just tryen to be a dad, also have a 13 year old son with the same woman. Like said earlier, but I'll go a little further. Any male can father a child. But a Man is a DAD.............
Just getting home from work boys. Had a couple cold ones (you pick what's cold) and need to feed my neck. I'm hungry.
Bob

 

She started her cycle to day so we are both off the hook!

She is still planing to move to CA, so we are not going to hook back up!

but I still don't like him!

 

Yay you, I guess...and for future reference, you are familiar with the phrase "duck and cover", right?

 

Glad you are off the hook, sounded like you were in a bad situation. But atleast it worked out. Hang in there, and don't ride bare back, unless your horse is fixed. ha ha

I am not implying to actually doing a horse, you get my meaning? I can see where this going so I am going to quit typing, and keep drinking.

 

You're drinking already?

I'm sooooooo jealous.

 

Some days being retired has its advantages, like today when my retirement ck hit my bank account. Nice being 38 and retired, actually 2 1/2 yrs ago.

20 yrs US Army Blackhawk Helicopter Mechanic/CrewChief
Flight Engineer/Door Gunner! 2 Tours In Iraq, Desert storm and right befour this last one started with the 101st Airborne.

Oh yea went to Somlia for that goat screw, and just got back from Afghanistan, over there as a civilian Door Gunner on a MI-17 Russian helo!

So yea, its nice to be able to tip one back when ever. And wrench on my trucks now and then. Yahoo!