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OK, somebody speak right up if I'm being an idiot here...and I know y'all aint shy...
So there's this young lady that I've been "seeing" on and off for the last year or so. Never any commitment/rules involved...just friends that get a little close sometimes.
She and I had a bit of a disagreement over the last few months. I essentially showed her the door a few weeks ago. Two weeks ago yesterday.
One of my Monday Night Football buddies comes over last night and is hiding in the corner...won't say two words to me. Turns out that the rumors flying about he and she were not so much rumors...they have recently gotten closer to eachother.
I say foul! (can't find Brad's bs flag...) No fair recycling women among close friends.
What says the peanut gallery?
So there's this young lady that I've been "seeing" on and off for the last year or so. Never any commitment/rules involved...just friends that get a little close sometimes.
She and I had a bit of a disagreement over the last few months. I essentially showed her the door a few weeks ago. Two weeks ago yesterday.
One of my Monday Night Football buddies comes over last night and is hiding in the corner...won't say two words to me. Turns out that the rumors flying about he and she were not so much rumors...they have recently gotten closer to eachother.
I say foul! (can't find Brad's bs flag...) No fair recycling women among close friends.
What says the peanut gallery?
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Is there some kind of statute of limitations on that? I just married a nice girl, and about six (or seven) years ago, she was dating one of my good friends.
I do think a few weeks isn't enough time, but does it have to be "forever"?
I do think a few weeks isn't enough time, but does it have to be "forever"?
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I don't visit here often, but I was on the mid-west area deal and saw "Man Law" as the thread. This is a topic that I have experience with.
tcbofade
You're right. Never can the guy's good friend ask the gal out. After at least a year only if the guy says it's OK. (And that does not mean the guy starts dating someone else. He must be consulted BEFORE freind asks her out.)
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tcbofade
You're right. Never can the guy's good friend ask the gal out. After at least a year only if the guy says it's OK. (And that does not mean the guy starts dating someone else. He must be consulted BEFORE freind asks her out.)
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He obviously feels guilty over it, so it isn't right in his mind... Had you broke it off, and he had no influence over it, I would say it is ok, but if she broke it off, and all of a sudden they are an item, it smells of underground action against you... that was always one of my rules, don't mess with friend's girlfriends/wives, just isn't worth the trouble it causes.
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Hey man your single who cares what he did! Don't let some girl get in your friendships way. Big deal, he'll find out sooner or later why you kicked her to the curb! Trust me had that happen to me and my best friend in school! Then we both kicked her butt to the curb!
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Originally Posted by seventyseven250
Is there some kind of statute of limitations on that? I just married a nice girl, and about six (or seven) years ago, she was dating one of my good friends. I do think a few weeks isn't enough time, but does it have to be "forever"?
However, I DID talk to him about it one night when we we're hanging out together. I told him that I really liked her and that I really didn't want to lose her friendship and was hoping for more and how would he feel about that. He was very cool with it and thought that we would be really good together. He and I are still best buds, but mostly because I had the goo manners of asking him before ever proceeding with a former lady.
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Originally Posted by tcbofade
and doesn't everyone hate it when someone displays less than goo manners... lol!
