Im too stressed and emotionally exhausted

Im even having a hard time logging on to FTE let alone posting
I find myself getin depressed again due to family tension and stress.
Im going through a rough spot to sum it all up,
I am having a extreamly hard time dealing with some issues in my life
And its really geting hard due to the added stress of my situation
right now i feel as though i have no direction, Im having trouble staying connected to people, expecially family, I find myself feeling as though it is not me in the situation, and that everything is spinning when I have to start facing the harder issues. My biggest issue is..i cringe when people try to touch me even a hug or handshake, it doesnt feel normal at all to me. I am trying to get past this, and i am struggling with it alot, and the emotional troubles i am having is causing me some physical pain also

i just really need yall to be praying hard for me, that God will give me the strenght to deal with my issues and pain, and to get past the unconfortableness of being touched, and to forgive and forget my past pains, and just learn how to grow in my life and walk with God

 

'Cringing at physical contact' isn't normal, even when you are going through a rough time. Please talk to someone better equipped than your friends here at FTE. And, of course, the prayers are flowing.

 

i just can't think of anything to ever be that stressed, depressed, emotionaly drained or whatever, about.

your health good? lost a loved one? if not, than i don't see any reason to worry about or be sad about anything.

if so, then good luck and make it through it, everything will be better.

 

Time to Cowboy up Country Sweetie.

I mean that in the best of ways. Raise your head up high and do what you need to do....A # 1 is you and you have to take care of you first and foremost or you won't be able handle the stress others lay before.

Do as stu37d stated and do it quickly. While your FTE family will always be here for you...we can seldom be there for you. Get to someone who can be there.

If you break your leg you go to someone trained and skilled to fix it...the same holds true with life and it's many challenges...get to someone skilled before you break.

Please.

 

I'm with stu37d and Keith. There are times when we all need the help of someone with the proper skills and experience to help us out. Obviously, I don't know exactly what it is you're going through, but rarely does a post come across with that much emotion, and I got to tell you, even though I don't know you personally, it worries me. Please, please, go see a professional to help you deal with the issues your going through. I know that the members of FTE are good, kind hearted people with a lot knowledge and wouldn't hesitate to help, but this sounds like something that requires a more personal face-to-face solution. Take care and I hope to see a post that things are getting better.

 

+1

Get some assistance from a professional. We all need help once in awhile. That's not a weakness, that's being smart.

 

CS you were a rock for me when i was going through hell. kind posts and pm's. i know that you have a deep strength. please draw on the support you offered me for yourself now and know that you have lots of support here. i'm saying a prayer for ya now and lean on your buds if you need us.

 

CountrySweetie, the posts above have great advice, and of course you will be in my prayers. I hope things get better and I understand kind of what you are going through because I've been there. Maybe not the same things, but you will be able to make it and it will make you stronger. Stick it through and keep your head up high, you're in my prayers.

Dustin

 

Hey Country Sweetie! Keep your head up and keep chuggin along. By your previous posts, I can tell you're the type that'll get through it and come out a better person. Don't be afraid to ask people around you for help and... my motto:
"Don't sweat the small stuff. It's all small stuff."

Ryan

 

You got my prayers.

 

Country Sweetie, I don't know all that you have been through or are going through. I agree with the others. Get help. If you have a Church, see your Pastor. If you don't, try one out. Your friends here care for you. They are family. I don't know if you were ever around for Archer1 (Jim Lee) or not. But the folks here were wonderful for him. I have been away myself for sometime, so I don't know if Jim is still around or not. Even if we don't ever get to see each other, we are close.

If I can do anything for you. Pray with you or just listen. PM me and I will help out. Prayer is a very Powerful tool.

Tom

 

Country Sweetie, just make that phone call.

We're all pretty good as an ear, and maybe some help, but the call is extremely important.

Just make it, and you'll be own your way to a better state of mind.

 

DIVORCE YOURSELF from other people's FLAT OUT BS!

Did YOU create it? Is it YOURS?

If it don't belong to you OFFLOAD IT. It just ain't yers to begin with, it isn't your fault.

So F'M!

You need to decompress somehow kind of way, STOP gitting caught up inbetween, and let go of the junk that just ain't yers!

How many times to I have to say: JUST......

UBU

You ARE letting yourself get messed up by what other people are doing.

STOP IT.

Back off, get back in touch with YOUR OWNSELF, and gitcha a perpective on where it all really is coming from.

Once you figure where it is coming down from, we can work from there.

Chances are you will have to tell someone right straight up to quit messing things up for you.

I've had to do that many times. And more than once I done told them to git right the hell away from me, because they were a just plain BAD INFLUENCE!


I was not born into this life to be a sewage pipe for someone else.

PERIOD!

Sometimes you just have to say: BACK OFF JACK! This is NOT because of me, IT'S BECAUSE OF YOU!

You go on and take a look at what YOU doin', I know that I am trying to do this here right.

 

consider it done, I will send prayers for you.

 

My prayers are with you too.