Hey all I haven't been on in a while because I'm in Olrando FL at the Business Professional of America (BPA) National Competition. I placed in the top 10 in the nation, so that was cool. However one of the biggest bombs of my life was droped on me while I was down here. The girl I have been trying to hook up with is in BPA with me (thats why I joined) and I was going to ask her out while we were down here. The first night we were here I ate dinner with her and flirted with her a bit, half way through the meal she got all pi$$ed at me and told me she was going out with some other guy. The problem is we had got out a couple of times back home and I know the guy she is going out with. What confused me is when ever I see these two at school they never talk to each other. Anyway I still wanted to talk with her and we did and she told me I was coming on too strong and to back off, which I have, but when we are at home she has never said anything about it. I'm so confused. Why do girls do that kind of thing? I still care for this girl and will continue to, but for now our relationship has taken a huge step back.

Thanks everyone I just needed to vent.

 

No one knows, NO ONE, anyone who claims they know, is lying

 

Ya, they are lying or they are actually a girl. WAIT, sometimes they don't even know!

-Matt

 

It's the 2 X chromosomes fightin with each other.

If I had any clue why girl's did that... I'd invent a pill to make everything all better. I guess its just a natural thing. We will never understand each other!

Hey Beast, how far are you from Gowganda?

 

Gowganda? I had to Google that! Sounds like a country near Africa. I am 10 hours away I guess. About 540 miles north of me. Why you ask?

-Matt

 

Sometimes? More like all the time..

 

Haha! Well my ag teacher (Mr. Carl) owns a place up there on the lake, and me and his son (Zeke) are going up there. Then Mr. Carl and his wife and two daughters will be up a few days later after me and Zeke get everything set up. But nevertheless.... sorry for hijacking this thread!

 

girls are just unpredictable, and impossible to understand, I know I tried years ago, but when I started gettin headaches tryin to make sense of it all, I said forget it I'll just let em alone.

sorry to hear she said that, but you'll be ok, theres plenty more fish to be caught in that sea.

 

Thanks for understanding guys. It feels good to know that I'm not the only one who had gone through this

The confusing thing is she act like nothing happened now that we are back home. So I am even more confused. I have half a mind to just say forget it but then againg it would be nice to be with her for the summer. So I don't know.

 

Yeah, i tell you what, i have a girl story! This one chick i wanted to go out with for like 2 years. We went kind of off and on, we hung out like we were going out, but never would kiss or anything. I made my move and went for the kiss. She gave me all the crap about not wanting to ruin a friendship and stuff. Like 2 days later we were watching a movie and then she like starts grabbing my hand and moving it places i never thought it would be. So i dont know, but like 3 days later i said the heck with her and found my true GF. I've been going with her for almost 10 months and i still dont know why she does some of the things she does? Its the 8th wonder of the world i guess! You'll know once you find that one, she'll be stalking you in a grocery store and stop you outside and come up to your house then the next day she'll find you out painting fire hydrants and sit with you for a while causing everyone who works for the city to ask who was hanging out with the fire hydrant painter. Trust me, its funny, and you'll know

 

Another thing girls do... to me at least... dunno bout every other guy... is I will chase them for a long time, and as soon as I got the g/f I'm with now a year and a half ago, those SAME girls came running from every direction. They learned a hard lesson when I told them to go to hell, they had their chance!

Hey, at least they all respect me now!