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it seems like EVERYONE even family trash talks behind someone else back. girlfriends, friends co-workers. What do they say about me? got me courious?
I on the other hand if a problem comes up I tell someone be it a male /female or whatever if they do something I think is stupid I"LL say so right then and there to thier face. I have WAY more respect for people like that too. I'l rather have the problem taken care of then rAther than oh she said you said he was...........
OH and the worst. People that buddy up with people to get something and when they leave oh... She was the biggest B----. I hate her. My ex was like that.real immature.
immature is the word. Heard a study the other day that most people now do not become "mature" until age 27. Sad.
Note he did say "most" as in there are some 40+ year olds still haven't matured.
I never have understood why people like to talk about others behind their backs, if I don't like you or like what you're doing I'll tell you and there will be no dispute about it. With me I'll treat you how I would like to be treated, I'll introduce myself as a pleasant person to you, but cross the line and tick me off and you'll know were you stand rather quickly!
ya theres alot trash talk every were anymore. I have way more respect for some one that will say what there problem is straight to my face not me haveing to find out through some one els.
If you thought for even an instant that what you thought would be instantly transmitted to the person you were thinking it of, how or would it change you?
Wow! When I first read this thread, I thought to myself oh if I have a problem with someone, I just tell them. Which, for the most part, is true. Until I actually get to the point of telling them and everything I wanted to tell them I end up watering down.
I GOTTA say it.. . . I may grow old. . . but. . . I REFUSE to grow up!
As for trash talking. It ain't good. It gets you no-where, real fast.
Trash is for taking out to the curb, to be hauled away.
My dear old Dad taught me, "To say what was on my mind, but, be mindful of how others might be impacted by what you say.
Never lie. If you lie, you better have a good memory, so that you can perpetuate that lie, for the rest of your life.
Lastly, do unto others as you would have them do unto you."
Dang. . . it just hit me. My Dad was pretty smart, even though I didn't always think so, when I was young.