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Old Jul 3, 2005 | 10:45 AM
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Originally Posted by 00BlueOvalRanger
Call it what you will. Respect. Etiquette. Being a gentleman.
I call it 'right'. It is what's right.
Call it manners. Call it 'up-bringing.'
My Mom and Dad instilled these values upon me.
(And my Dad would 'whoop' me if I didn't do it!)
Also, it was, "Yes Sir." (or) "No, Sir." "Yes Ma'am." (or) "No, Ma'am."
Otherwise. . . . Whap!
Blue, we must have grown up in the same house!

Yep. I'm a door opener. I sometimes get caught at the stores however holding the door open for strangers to pass through too.
 
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Old Jul 3, 2005 | 11:04 AM
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Originally Posted by F150Texan
Something I have always done is when we are dining out...I will be sure that I face the entrance of the establisment when seated. If anything strange goes down, then I can protect my lady.

That has seemed to draw praise from ladies in the past.

As RocketScience said, "We must have grown up in the same house!"

I do NOT sit with my back to the door. IF the 'defecation hits the rotary ocillator', I want to know what and where I need to react to/for/with.

The same holds true for flying. I either want to sit all the way in the back, or all the way to the front.
 
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Old Jul 3, 2005 | 11:12 AM
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Originally Posted by DT 466Man
I do. I'm also Old fashioned. People are just lazy these day's. When i go on dates the girls are always supprised that i open doors for them and i don't try to show off.

Kids these day's are just a bunch of rude, dis respectful,and greedy bunch. I can say that i'm 17.

Now they call there girls ho's and other un appropriate words. I learned from my parents and my grand parents who are real old fashioned. If i was a girl and some one called me that even jokingly i would probally punch them. Tell their ho's to get in there Mitsubishi like they are a posession.

What happened to being affraid they would slip away forever if you didn't watch carefully or screwed up. They don't seem to be worried about loosing someone like that. I guess i would be consitered a cowboy. No one daring enough any more to show any respect. They have kids while they are still kids. Then don't own up to their mistakes. If that ever happened to me(God Forbid) After my daddy got done beating the crap out of me. He would make sure i owned up to my mistake. Alot of kids parents just don't care any more and don't raise there children right.

I guess i just come from an outdated family where courtesy matters.

Gentelmen have happy lives with the love of their life forever, Smugs like above are never respectful of what they have and screw up a good thing they had.

DT
I'm 18 and I will second everything ya just said with a big HELL YEAH!
 
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Old Jul 3, 2005 | 11:13 AM
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I must've grown up in that house too. I was told by Mrs. Bear, though, that my door-opening skills have deteriorated markedly since keyless entry became the norm.
 
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Old Jul 3, 2005 | 01:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Franken-Truck
I echo the above, I don't mind holding the door open for people, its just common courtesy. But I espesially love holding the doors for girls who's boyfreinds are with them and don't have the decency to do it for her. I get the sweetest little "thank you" from the lady, and just a quick nod from the boyfreind I know its got to eat him up
I do the same thing. The woman usually says Thank you and the guy nods. It's funny. I make sure to hold the door for most ladies (especially if they are cute)

Originally Posted by RocketScience
Yep. I'm a door opener. I sometimes get caught at the stores however holding the door open for strangers to pass through too.
I once held the door open for like 3 minutes because people just kept coming. Finally someone took the door from me and said it was their turn. I said thanks! (:

-Matt
 
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Old Jul 3, 2005 | 01:34 PM
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I guess we all grew up in the same house, because that is my Daddy exactly

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Old Jul 3, 2005 | 06:02 PM
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Originally Posted by DT 466Man
I guess we all grew up in the same house, because that is my Daddy exactly

DT
Same here! I always hold the door for the ladies/elders, even known for helping older ladies at the grocery store with buggies and to their car when they are overloaded!
 
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Old Jul 3, 2005 | 06:16 PM
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Yup, I love old people. They always have interesting stories.

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Old Jul 3, 2005 | 06:36 PM
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I come from a time when etiquette and manners were common and expected (I'm 71). Being a creature of habit, I still rise when a woman enters the room or when she rises. This sometimes creates an awkward situation since many women are not used to such a gesture and don't know how to react. It is my experience that most women still appreciate courtesy.
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Old Jul 3, 2005 | 06:59 PM
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Don't forget Removing your hat in the presence of a lady.

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Old Jul 3, 2005 | 09:31 PM
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What about taking off your baseball cap when you eat in a sit down cafe? I was always taught to take my hat off at the table or it could get knocked off - both the hat and the head!!
 
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Old Jul 3, 2005 | 10:53 PM
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Yay for the gentlemen!! Sounds like Ford drivers are some of the most polite out there. I do like it when guys hold the door for me, though some make a huge production out of it and can get a bit annoying...If I'm 2 feet away from the door and he's 10 feet out, I don't expect him to race me there, I have arms too! The "don't turn your back on the door" thing presents an issue, because I don't like having people behind me either, but if it's a big deal to him then I say let him go for it. My question is...how do you proper gentlemen feel about women wearing hats at the table? I realize that in situations where the hat is part of the "ensemble", taking it off is probably not necessary, but I hate sitting down with a mixed group, and the guys usually take their caps off but any girls that happen to be wearing one keep it on (fearing "hat hair" ). It just seems tacky to me. I wear a cap to work sometimes, but always take it off when we're at the cook shack for lunch.
 
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Old Jul 3, 2005 | 11:03 PM
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Originally Posted by wyomingaggie
Yay for the gentlemen!! Sounds like Ford drivers are some of the most polite out there. I do like it when guys hold the door for me, though some make a huge production out of it and can get a bit annoying...If I'm 2 feet away from the door and he's 10 feet out, I don't expect him to race me there, I have arms too! The "don't turn your back on the door" thing presents an issue, because I don't like having people behind me either, but if it's a big deal to him then I say let him go for it. My question is...how do you proper gentlemen feel about women wearing hats at the table? I realize that in situations where the hat is part of the "ensemble", taking it off is probably not necessary, but I hate sitting down with a mixed group, and the guys usually take their caps off but any girls that happen to be wearing one keep it on (fearing "hat hair" ). It just seems tacky to me. I wear a cap to work sometimes, but always take it off when we're at the cook shack for lunch.
If the lady's hat is part of the ensemble, then by all means it should be kept on.

A guys hat is NOT an ensemble; even if it is, such as a fedora; guys? the hat comes off.
 
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Old Jul 3, 2005 | 11:52 PM
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I have no clue about all that -

I generally wear grease, lead solder scraps, and bits of rubber stuff that land on me.

What does one wear as an "Garage Ensemble"?

Who gives a flying (something).....

I dress up sometimes, but it doesn't seem to fit me well.

*Frustercated*
 
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Old Jul 4, 2005 | 12:01 AM
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Doors? Depends. If we're approaching the truck from the passenger side, I'll open her door first. Driver's side, well, it's probably 50/50 that I walk around and open her door, or just open mine and slide over to unlock hers.

For shopping, well, the stores usually have those auto open doors. I will hold a door for someone else though, if they're within 10 steps. I also got stuck holding a door for about 30 people. I was looking at my wife already sitting down, thinking "this is bs. I should be sitting down too."

Sidewalks? Same thing. If we're out walking the dogs, it's usually where the dog I'm handling leads me. If it's just the two of us, I'm 95% on the road side.

How about giving up your seat on a bus? My wife and I took a bus from our hotel in Waikiki to Pearl Harbor. The ride there was okay, bus wasn't full. But the ride back, holy cow. The driver packed us in there like sardines. An hour back to the hotel, and when the driver let enough people for us to sit down, he'd pick up another bus load at the next stop. And with all the older people he was picking up, we'd offer our seats again. Up, down. Up, down. And not even adjoining seats. It got to the point where we just stayed standing up with an empty bus, just in case. It's all good though. I figure someone standing at a bus stop was probably waiting longer than I was sitting on the bus, so they can have my seat and rest for a while. Guy, girl, young, old, pregnant or not. Don't matter.

At home, I drive. I haven't taken a bus since I was in high school. But I was like that even then.
 
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