Well the story is Friday I had a STRESSFUL day...but I was feeling good cause it was my last day I had to go to skool until graduation practice (or so I though, whole nother story though) I ride over to best friend's house and we get ready to go off wheelin. When I get over there I get acall from a friend asking if she can tag along and if her friend can come too. I'm like sure, cause I felt like hanging out with someone close cause my best friend was with a girl. Well...I pick them up and get to best friend's house. Everyone sits and chills for a bit and we get ready to roll out. I go to the bathroom and come out and she's ditched my *** (aka jumped in my buddy's Jeep...not my best friend) This completly pushed me over the top and I look at my best friend and say "I'm outta here!" He looks over at her and says, "don't do anything stupid, just get your @%% home." I roll out mad as heck...and head for my sister's house. Kinda had an arguement today about what happened...and she says that she was gonna come ride with me and that she was gettin outta the Jeep before I rolled out.
I REALLY think I overreacted but it still makes me mad. This girl still means alot to me, but I don't know if I want to waste my time on her anymore. I don't want her to be mad at me and hate me...but our relationship has been a pretty steep rollercoaster. I don't know where to go, but I also dislike being mad.

 

Wow...your going to get so much advice it aint funny, the level of advice will depend on the age of the person giving the advice. "Dont let people rent space in your head". Life is full of disapointments and usually theres a female involved :P. Get over it and move on.

 

Your young. Scrap her and move on. Statistically your doomed staying with your HS sweetheart. Next please!

 

Got to agree with DZERVIT. Go off to college and find yourself a college girl. They are more fun anyway.

 

Mmmmmmm.... College girls... (drool drool...)

 

Yeah get a college girl. If you come to my school you can find a ton of them(that's a lot of small ones not 4 or 5 really big ones).

 

Trust us - college will indeed make a man out of you! Sure you'll get your heart tromped on some more, but my god you'll have fun! Ahhhh... to be 17-19 again.

 

There really are a lot of girls to choose from. It'll be tough but I'd try to move on. Sorry to get off the subject a little but, there is a girl in one of my classes that I really want to ask out but for some reason I haven't been able to yet. She is a little more of a partier than me but she said her dad has an F350 DRW diesel so she can't be all bad! She even said she loves to drive it and that made me want to ask her out even more.She's about 5'4" and 105lbs so I bet she looks funny(or really hot) driving down the road in a 7000lb F350. What do you guys think?

Good luck. Hope you make the right decision.

 

Get on that buddy before another sausage takes your position!

 

Pardon me for butting in, but, am I the only one that noticed the comment of "I get a call from a friend asking if she can tag along and if her friend can come too. I'm like sure, cause I felt like hanging out with someone close cause my best friend was with a girl."????????

That sure doesn't sound to me like the guy "owns" this girl or has any intentions other than having a trophy of his own at his side. I think she had every right "as a friend" to do as she pleased. If it was a guy friend that wanted to tag along, you wouldn't think twice of him taking off with some chick.

If this girl was more than a friend, then why did she need to call to find out if she could be a "tag-a-long"?

 

She was a VERY close friend...If you want the whole story shoot me an e-mail carlene Like I said, I think I overreacted. When she called, she was basically asking me to come get her. I just wanted someone to hang out with and ride with me...since my best friend had amanda riding with him. I woulda been perfectly fine if she wouldn't of asked if she could hang out with me and got me to come and pick her up. I basically felt like a tool...and I HATE HATE HATE that feeling. Dang I feel like *booty* right now.

 

From now on could you state whether the friend was a Male Friend/best friend or Female Friend/best friend.

I was lost just reading the paragraph that Carlene quoted.

Feel free to use words like: Platonic,Kindred, & associates as well

 

I think you might have overreacted a little bit. I'd give her a call and get her to go wheelin` with you when it's just you and her. The worst that can happen is she'll say no, right? She might even say yes, more than likely so, then you get to hit it all summer, and then if you go to different colleges, you more than likely won't stay together anyway. You'd better apologize, though, ASAP, or you'll never get anywhere with her. First time a girl thinks that there might be a reason not to go out with you, she won't.

 

Sigh.......wish these were the worse problems I have to deal with. You are only young once. Enjoy it while you can.

 

Get Over It, Now